My name is Meaghan, I`m 15 years old. I`m very critical , and I have a strong view about things, which is why I love giving advice. I love expressing my opinion, especially when someone needs it. I can be VERY harsh sometime, but usually, just actually THINK of what I am saying, and you`ll understand I`m trying to help.I also have problems of my own, that I get sick of listning too, so why not help others instead? Well, I hope my advice works well for you! -Meaghan
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what is a "flamer"? my friend called my other friend that and they got into a huge fight! what does it mean? (link)
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Flamer means homosexual.
but if you ask me..it means:
I`m low, and I have to dis other people about who they are, and I use sexual orientations as insults.
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ok..so there was this girl and she was like my best friend all thro 8th grade...then my b/f broke up with me and she went out with him a DAY later. how horrible is that?! well..he is so mean to her and he talks so bad about me and my other friends..but she wont stick up for us..AT ALL! she sits there and laughs about it. she said she was sorry and i was like.ok..and i have forgiven her and everything but now its like evrything she does gets on my nerves i cant stand this girl. and its hard because she still thinks we are best friends and i dont know how to just tell her..Hey girl..we arent friends...i thought it would be easier to forgive her but it keeps getting harder cause she is like the fakest person in the world. idk what i should do because now we are in a huge fight and she is making it seem like its MYYY fault.and ignoring her doest work because she is good friends with another one of my best friends so its like everywhere i go with my friends she is there too..ughhh please help! (link)
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Honestly, there wasn't even a point in writing about her, because you deserve better friends, and she`s not worth a second of your time. Girls who choose boys over friends are just bad news. When she sits their laughing, she`s just as bad as him for talking about you. Just ignore her, she`ll get the picture. As for she`s everywhere you go, ask you`re other friends to go places on your own, but MAKE SURE you don't say anything bad about her, because that would be sinking down to her level.
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ok i have a friend and i recently found out that hes gay i was really suprised at first but things got better and we talked more but now hes just been so bitchy lately everyone thinks im dating him bc hes not open yet and i think that may be one of the reason for my failed attempts at relationships hes a really good person at heart and i know that but lately i dunno hes been so moody almost like a girl you know? i just cant stand it hes getting on my last nerve! what can i do to get him to be the person i used to know even after i found out he was gay??? sorry this is so long! (link)
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Being gay is a hard thing to go through. It's like all of a sudden realizing who you`ve been your whole life. Like you knew who you were in the back of your head, but you made yourself not belive it because you knew nobody would accept it. He could be moody because it`s so stressfull , and maybe people are giving him a hard time about his sexuality. I`d just wait and see what happens.
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My best friend and I have been friends for about 8 years and we go together like pb and j. Now I'm starting to feel jealous of her because she's got a lot more friends than me and I think she's a lot prettier and skinnier and funnier and all that. I KNOW she won't abandon me no matter how many other friends she has, but I just hate being jealous. (link)
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Right now you probably feel like a bad person for being jealous of your best friend, but surprisingly it happens more than you think. Just make sure you maintane your anger, and don't say anything out of line, because you don't want to lose a friend like that. Not many girls are worth keeping as friends these days, and when you find one it`s very rare. When you feel jealous, try secretly writing a list about all the things you like about yourself. That should make you feel better about yourself.
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Okay, well you see, I was really good friends with this one guy. We go to different schools and only see each other occasionally. For a while we were boyfriend/girlfriend, but not offically. We would hold hands and then, one night he just held me, in that way. Then, I didn't see him for a while, and I have recently just seen him. I asked him if he still liked me, (because I knew he did( as in he did in the past)) and he said no. I don't know if I should do anything else, because I still like him, or if I just should let it be, because he initiated our "realtionship" and then he just ended it like that.
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Psht , forget him kid. If he doesn't like you, then he doesnt even deserve to be liked by you. Keep your confidence up, I bet tons of boys would want to be with you, so why settle for one who has no interest anymore?
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im sitting her bawling. heres the story, ok well my friend (matt) was talking to my friend (susie) and they were both talking to me too, ok well susie ims me and shes like matt just said im pretty lol. then i say to matt you think susies pretty and it was all like a joke and everything but susie got mad b.c i told him and all this stuff, so i apoligize 43 times (literally) and she dosnet even talk to me i know it might seem like it is my fault but u have to kno my friend, she stabs me in the back alot and this one little thing didnt even matter i think she just wanted to get mad or something so im like begging for her 4giveness and ive never even like been mad at her or showed me being mad b.c i value my "friends" and i dont like confrontantions...well eventually she forgave me but acted like it was a privilagge or something but now i just feel so small and used like i should have stood up for myslelf, i dont really have a ? i guess i just need some guidance or soemthing
thank you (link)
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You should keep this situation as a reminder in the back of your head. Girls are cruel, nobody can ever change that. If she was backstabbing you before, then don't even worry about it, she isn't worth being friends with anyways. You`re probably an awesome person, and you should have high expectations of who can get close to you and who cant. If someone screws you over one time, what makes you think they wont do it again? Seriously this girl just sounds insecure, and that isn't your fault and she shouldn't bring it upon you.
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okay wtf theres these 2 boys tyler an kyle and they started this myspace group cal fuck up geordans shit club n it upset me me . i dont even know why and like alot people joined t n where making fun of me wtf do they do that? i mean do they even care i dont get it .. :( (link)
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Wow, people are really low. But seriously, ignore it. I mean, do you really think they`re going to let this last long? If they waste their time on crap like that, then they must have no life. I know its hard being harassed in High School , Cause when certain people hate you, It`s like you feel the whole world is against you, but really..they`re the shallow ones. Don't even sweat it. Why should you care what people think of you when you won't even know them after highschool? Plus, if people treat you like that, then don't even waste your time.
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