Hi everyone, My name is Jamie and I am really glad that I have my own advice column now. I love to help people or at least try to. I haven't had much of a bad life myself but I have bad experiences with Guyz! N other things but Not so much with a bad life. I can still help you..
Thank You,
Jamielynn
E-mail: NewYorkCheerGrL1@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: High-School student
Age: 14
AIM: x3sweetxbabyx3
Yahoo: Cherry_grl_200869
Member Since: July 21, 2004
Answers: 71
Last Update: November 13, 2004
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ok my I dumped my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and now i really like him but he acts weird he flirts with me one minuite then round his friends he doesn't wanna know me but I think he still likes me but he keeps saying he's got his other girlfriend pregnant and I'm sick of hearng iit because I think he's lying what should I do I'm really confused please help me (link)
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Well First think about it for a while. Ask youself, Do you really want to be with him? Do you think it will work out better? ...
If he is ignoring you infront of his friends that shows he isn't man enough. So think about that. Then if you still want to be with him..try talking to him about it one on one. Tell him how you feel and let him know you are confused weather he still likes you or not because of the way he acts when he's around his friends. And ask him if he really did get his other girlfriend pregnant...
hope i helped
Xo..Jamie..oX
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hey i have a friend that was on her period and had sex 3 times day after day and he came every time she keeps calling me trying to say srry for what she did but i dont anwser....... its not the 1st time she has done somthing this dumm. nut this time i dont think i should except her apology. should i or should i not? need help plzs
signed FEED UP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Really it isn't any of your business what she does it is her personal life. Yes you have a right to be mad but still that is her choice to do what she wants..
x0x JamieLynn
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I have a lot of guy friends and my mom hates that. Bcuz i dont have very many girl friends. I have maybe 2 or 3 that go to my school. So my mom is a lil worried that a have to many guy friends and im spending to much time with guys im mean im not a tom-boy im really a prep but ever since last year i hav had a bad rep bcuz i made-out with this guy a lot. So not many girls wanna be my friend for some reason. How can i tell my mom that Boys are the only friends that i have. Or how can a bcome friends with girls?
-CutieT- (link)
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My mom complains about me hanging out with guys all the time. Yes I have a ton of girl friends but it seems i get along with guys alot too and they dont have as much drama as us girls do. that what i tell my mom. But then again she knows that one of the guys I am always with is my boyfriend so she is worried im doing stuff but i tell her im not. Which im not really! so the best thing i can tell u is to tell her the truth or tell her that you would rather be friends with Guys because they dont bring as much drama as girls do!
x0x Jamielynn
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LaTly i have been vary depressed like im not the old me...i used to be vary fun tew be around, loving life, and full of energy...and i think i mite be depresed because i cut and everything but i think my question is...wat is happening to me (link)
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Hun im in like the same place. I never cut before and then one day I did it. It was over my boyfriend. but when he seen the cuts he got madd and made me promise never to do it again. it's very hard not to though everytime i see a knife i wanna pick it up. The best thing i can say it to just walk away from the knife and anything else that may be bothering you. for me when something makes me agervated or something I go for walks or write. hope i helped. ifu wanna talk im me on AIM x3sweetxbabyx3
x0x Jamielynn
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Hey, (14/f) I am friends with my exboyfriend. We talk a lot, and are pretty close. I am going to a different school this year so it's going to be really hard to see him and talk to him, but i really value our friendship. Whenever we talk though he alwayse brings up other girls, and how hott they all are. I know that I shouldn't get jelous since we are just friends now, but i do. So I can't deside weather he is making me feel jelous so i dont forget him, or if he is just talkin to me like a close friend.
-Really confused (link)
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Well your saying you two are close. And he is a guy so I'm thinking that he figures that since you guys are good friends he can talk to you about anything. So yea it's probably as a close friend.
x0x Jamie*Lynn
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arite..well when i was about 5 or 6 or maybe even younger ihad a best friend and he was a boy..he lived around the block frum me but directly behind my house!! i juss used to hop the wall and go walk in his house...our parents wer good friends too....i went EVERYWHERE with them and we wer best friends...we did karate together, we juss went eveywhre...swimming lessons, soccer, erything...we wer best friends...and i had a lil brother who we never really liked to play with wed hide frum him, lock him out, nvr invite him newhere etc....and then one day we wer about 7 or 8 i think idk...but my brother n *chris* the guy friend...got in a fight about POKEMON...how dumb...and it juss caused a big argument!! i wasnt allowed to see chris and r parents stopped talking...but now r parents talk alot over the wall and chris mom juss had a baby so id use that as an excuse to go see chris but we nvr really would talk...wed say hi...but nothin else.,..and he is shy around gurls so hes nvr really had a gf...and i was his best gurl friend!!!!! and he was my best guy friend it wuld b s0o0o awesum if it was like that now...and hes s0o0 hott now and im not bad lookin either...and his mom always says she wants us to b friends agen n stuff bc we nvr really got in a fight but it messed ery thing up...it wuld b s00o awesum to hav a best friend thats a guy...who i could talk to...who lives s0o0 close wat shuld i do?...im goin over ther to see the baby tonite i think....wat shuld i say?? hes really shy...and hott...but wat shuld i do?/ plzz help!!!! i miss him!!! it wuld b awesum!! omg plz help me on sumthing i shuld say to him (link)
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Just ask him if he wants to hang out and just chyll sometime and take it from there
x0x JamieLynn
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it use to be me my friend jamie 'nd my friend kaleigh 'nd cera.. all 4 of us.. now we split up and kaleigh 'nd jamie are best friends and me and cera are best friends. they found someone else (who i am also friends wit) an me an cera have someone new too (amber- but we been tight wit her for a while!) But see kaleigh - jamie - dont like amber cause they aint all friends.. so i guess that could b part of the problem . but here goes the main problem to the situation. I miss kaleigh an jamie.. i dont know if i might b jealous that i was always there for them and it seems like they pushed me away for each other.. but i get sad sometimes cause they always are together granted im always wit cera and amber an they get mad (they tell me!) but i miss them i guess.. and heres the other probelm - kaeigh ad jamie have always talked shit about each other behind teach othrs back and i was always the girl to never tell and b there for both but yet they end up leavin me? wut the hell is that shit?.. god i dunno. (link)
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Why don't you try to sit them down and talk to them! and tell them that just because they aren't friends with amber doesn't mean that you can't be!
x0x Jamielynn
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I had a friend, Trey Davis, well he died because he was chasing after his dog and a car hit and killed him. I wanna see how he's doing, and I wanna tell him how I'm doing. Sometimes I feel like he's with me, gaurding me. But at other times, I feel sooo alone. I wanna know if you can help me out plz!
.::Chelsea::. (link)
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I know how you feel. My grandfather passed away about a year an a half ago. We were exstremly close! I feel that he is with me at times and at times I don't and yes i feel alone! The thing is you need to realize he is there guarding over you!
He may not be visable but he is there. I have these little things were I just sit and cry. Not to get like kinda off but One time I was with my friend his sister and my boyfriend. We were in the car going back home and this song came on, and I just started crying. and NO one knew why until after we got out of the car and I had settled down. I've been told its ok to cry its ok to talk to yourself when really your not talkng to yourself your talkng to whom ever may be there ( trey for example) if you have a picture of him.. hold it close and talk and tell him how you are doing. You may not get a response but he's in heaven now he is in good hands. i bet he is having a great time.. I hope i could help you! if you ever just want to talk IM on AIM at x3sweetxbabyx3
x0x Jamielynn
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I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do? (link)
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Try calling them and then maybe they will call you as well
x0x JamieLynn
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I live in a small neighborhood, huge houses and lots of kids. That is the bad part lots of kids, so i have a bunch of friends, and they are constantly fighting. But i am always stuck in the middle, and then i give advice to 1 friend and the other thinks i'm on there side. It is so confusing and bad. hOW DO I handle this?? And i already tried the whole "its not my fight so don't get me in the middle" it doesn;t work!! i rate **LaUrEn** (link)
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Just If you know that your friends are in a fight try sitting them down together and making them talk about it...talking things out always works.wellmost of the time!
x0x JamieLynn
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