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x hey yall its Chloe. Hope yall like my site. Im from TN! so IM me xEvery girl wants prince charming... and while he may be nice and all..i want guy who will come up from behind & put his arms around me..and whisper in my ear that he loves me... & he lays awake at night, just thinking about me... a guy who will call at like 3 a.m. just to tell me how much he misses me... he'd come over just after we get off the phone because he wants to know how i'm really doing because i said i was fine but we both know i was lying.. he'd kiss me on my forehead & tell me everythings gonna be alright..he may not be prince charming to anyone else but in my eyes.. he'd fit the part!!
x0x- Chloe =]
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okaayy! we dont talk no more but u give lyk tha best advice. lol anyway
my friend - lacey - use to go out with this 12th grader..Justin
they broke up and he HATES her. like literally.. i didnt know anyone could ever hate someone that much..lol
but yeh..when im over at her house or when she is over here, shes ALWAYS tryin to talk to him and everytime she says somethin to him, he cusses her out and she makes a NEW sn.. so she has like 300 sn's..and he like, blocks her on everyone..lol quite funny but shes my friend
but yeahh..one time i was over there and he said somethin REALLY rude and so she admitted that she hated him and ALWAYS would and that she didnt care if ne*1 went out with him or nuthin
weLL..justin lyks me and me and him are startin to talk alot more and now shes tellin all her friends that shes scared that me and him are gonna go out.. im not sayin we are, but it might happen.. shes settin herself up for heartbreak right??
i dont see what the big deal is cause i BET she wouldnt hate anyone else who liked him and she liked my bf last yr and sed all this crap to him about me that wasnt true?
so like on thursday she came over and she sed she LOVES my brother and that she was completley OVER justin
so last nite she asked me if i lykd him and i had to be honest
and i like, sorta - not enough to go out with him though
and now shes mad @ me ..she was tellin mi other fried how bad of a friend i was and how i always turn on her when she has problem
but i was always there for her cause i would always try to get him to lyk her again and he would hate me for it
then she put in her profile that she was over him
but
why would she care if i liked him if she was over him??
but the thing is.. she saw him yesterday and she said she fell back in LOVE with him since she saw him but after i told her i sorta liked him she said she HATED him
what should i do... =/
Wow this is hard.. umm you have to talk to the both of them. Tell her that she said she was over him and you felt like it was okay for you to like him. Just tell her how you feel.. and tell him too. You have to find a way to make it work I guess. idk i've been in this situation before and like my friend said if being with him is what is gonna make you happy then go for it! Trust me she loved me-she went out with him for 11 months. But if she was really your friend she would want you to be happy. Sure you cant make her feelings go away but you can put them into consideration. Good Luck! Tell me how everything goes! LOVE U GiRL!
hey Chloe!!! first, i love you!!! lol and second, u'll kno who this is soon.... but anyway... i really seem to be slippin off the edge of life... it seemed for awhile that i had finally found that filler-of-all-holes in Jesus a couple of months ago and i kno that truly, i did... but after the smoky facades and fake lives settle, the emptiness remains... now it's almost unbearable.. i'ma true warrior and i always push thru but lately the silence has grown truly deafening, considering the fact that i'm cooped up all day with no outside connections and no way to get any... plus, i don't know who i am any more... over the past 9 months i've gone from one facade to the other and i haven't found one that fits yet... whether it be black or light hanging on me, anytime i look in the mirror, darkness seems to be enveloping and engulfing my image, even my words... u've prolly already sensed it just in reading this... and i lost my 3rd girlfriend about... umm, 2-ish months ago and recently i've finally begun to appreciate the gap that she once filled... with no one to talk to or to love, including myself, and nothing to free myself, i now know not what to do... please help me mah lil sis...
Psalm 6:1-3/6-7 O Lord, do not rebuke me in your anger or discipline me in your wrath. Be merciful to me, Lord, for I am faint; O Lord, heal me, for my bones are in agony. My soul is in anguish. How long, O Lord, how long? / I am worn out from groaning; all night long I flood my bed with weeping and drench my couch with tears. My eyes grow weak with sorrow; they fail because of all my foes.
Gah this is really hard.. Im gunna pray for you.. I've been praying for you for awhile though. I was at church Wednesday and the speaker at West Jackson told us that you need someone praying for you at all times. Whether you are in a time of need or not. I think you are just going through a challenge that God is putting you through. God will only put you through the struggles that you can handle. SO trust me you can handle this! I'll even help you and walk through all of it with you.. Just say the word and I'll be there.. you know it. Gah this is almost making me cry because I've been where you are.. Life can be so hard. I love you man! and I'll be helping you every inch of the way!
hey babe, u know me i go to TMS and im a few of ur classes, but anyways k well i have alot of freidns but there is one that i lvoe soo much she is MY all time favorite bestest freidn but i dont think she feels the same way about me friendship wise she is the sweetes nicest funniest gurl in the 7th garde and i lvoe her to detah ive knonw her since 2nd and we have been reunited and close since 7th andshes my best freind but i dont think she thinks the same as me and i wish she did but she doesnt and it makes me sad and woinder if i should just go abck to some of my other freinds! and i get really mad sometimes and even jealous when she is haning around someone else like another freind and i ahet these feleings that make me jealous for the stupidest reasons pleas ehlpe me and tell me what to do please!
Aww.. Talk to your friend about it. I know how you feel though. I get those feelings too sometimes. But you have to realize that you have other friends and so does she. Its just a fact of life. I know you want a friend that will ALWAYS be there. But trust me if shes a good friend like you put her off to be then she'll be there ALL the time right when she needs you. So just talk to her about it and see how it goes. Im really sorry I cant help much. its just up to you and your friend. Good Luck!
I hate life! I wish sometimes i could die! My best friend like hates me and idk what to do! God im really having a hard time! Help me! plez...
Sign,
I dont know how to handle this!
omg pray. just pray that it'll all work. IM ME PLEASE. I know how it feels to just want to curl up and die. I've been there and I will try to help you through it all. PLEASE IM ME. I x3 you.
I feel like you dont like me very much. I dont know what i did or even if i did nething.
Umm who is this..I cant think of anyone I dislike soo just talk to me Im sorry if i made you think that x0x-Chloe
HeY ChlOe! WOW IM SO0O0O0O0 EFFIN SRY I MISSED YOUR BAPTISM THINGY! BuT cOnGrAdUlAtiOnZ*!*! I lOvE yOu CHLOE PAYGE WEST! xoxo-->JeSsiiCa*
haha i know its ok! I STILL LOVE YOU! x0x
I dont think that a lot of my friends really like me anymore. I try to be less annoying but most of the time it doesnt work. My bffaeaes dont really even like me anymore. I still want to be frieneds with every one of them. What should I do?
Ask them if anything is wrong. umm.. Just tell them that they mean alot to you and just how you feel. Good Luck, sorry Im not much help. x0x
I dont know who to take to prom..I go to Tigrett and I'm in 8th grade I'm also a girl but im scared to ask a guy cuz then that would seem desperate! im not a cheerleader...popular person...im shy...i have only a couple friends... and u dont talk to me
well who are you I'll talk to you if I know who you are...how do you know me?? Umm tell me the people u like...you can IM me-hiddenlove4uxo
why u be cutting yourself
umm why are you are asking me that?? x0x
Hey, I was wondering do u like/know meghan o'conner? She is trying to be my friends and i herd she went to your old skool... is she a good persoon to hang out with?
I know her. But like I dont really KNOW her so IDK what to tell you. Just do what you want to. If she seems nice then go for it. Good Luck.
x0x-Chloe
hey chloe!
umm i don't know where to start but like okay my boyfriend (lets say his name is jay) is REALLY flirty and i'm okay with that and then like this girl that goes skating(lets say her name is robin)and you know her well at the movies the other night she was like all over him and she flirts with him rite in FRONT OF MY FACE and it really hurts my feelings! and i dont want to say anything because then she would think i was greedy and i don't want to be greedy! but bottom line is that i hate she flirts with him like that! what should i do?
hey girl! well if you dont want to talk to HER about it then talk to your boyfriend. OR get someone else to talk about it. Im sorry this is happening. But if this guy really loved you he would listen to what you have to say. And I dont think you would want to break up with him without talking to him about it! I have done that before and it could have ended up better so yeah just talk to him. He wont know unless you say sumthing! Good Luck
x0x-Chloe
well....on the fone this gurl(lets say Samantha)who was sitting next to a gurl who likes me (and lets say Molly) and she kept asking me who i liked and if i like "molly" well i didnt really like but when they asked who i liked i told them this gurl (lets say Lauren) Samantha tried to be quiet but i could hear her and she said " dont worry she's not pretty at all dont worry about it" And to tell you truth samantha and molly arent really that pretty themselves. But the ? is what should i do? should i shy away from the 2 gurls or try to keep being friends with them? I dont wanna be friends with them if they are just going to dis the people im friends with.
Depends on how good of freinds you and these too girls are! And is this something to end ur friendship over. Sometimes you'll know when its time to end a friendship. OR you should just tell them that what they are saying and doing is hurting or gettin on ur nerves. Just let them know. And follow what you want to do! Good Luck
x0x-Chloe
hey chloe! well, i have this friend, and she's been going out with this guy that went to southside (we'll call him Tim). well, Tim's dad is really abusive and stuff to him, and he had enough of his dad beating him for no reason, so he ran away and hitch hiked all the way to Kentucky, and he's never going back home, and he's always drunk and all this stuff, and he called my friend the other night and told her that he had another girlfriend and started cussing her out for no reason b/c he was so drunk. now she's just really mad about it, and i don't know what to say to her b/c i don't know what it's like to have someone leave you like that and say stuff like that to me. what should i do?!
The only thing you can do is just be there for her! And help her if she needs your help. Cuz thats what friends are for. And she really needs to forget about him if he does that to her. Which it really sounds like she doesnt deserve it. but I'm really sorry. but like I said just try to help her anyway she needs you!
x0x-Chloe
i broke my friends favorite doll should i tell her please help!!!!!!!!!!
honesty is the best policy! so tell her and offer to pay for it or something! Chloe*
well im really good friends with this guy and i like him a lot because were so close and similar and i think we both like eachother and we talk about everything but he always asks out other girl who turn him down, doesnt he know that im righ tin front of him and were perfect for eachother how can i help him see that?
Just let him know how you feel. And no he wont realize you right infront of him if he doesnt know you like him! So0o Just tell him but also tell him you dont want to ruin the great friendship yall have built. good luck
Chloe*
Hey my lil adorable elephant girl!! haha i need your advice ok..um ok paige says she just wants to be friends so we're just friends but then this girl likes me and i sort of like her but paige gets all pissed at me and then burns herself i mean she said we're friends and gets mad at me for liking someone else whats her prob? thanks chloe keep up the work haha bye
Well...just talk to Paige. Ask her why she gets upset. I think she is just upset that you say you love her and then you love someone else too. And she doesnt like the fact that someone is "better" than her. I can talk to her if you need me to. But tell me and just do what your heart tells you! Good Luck
x0x// Chloe
hye gurl well there is this guy that i sorta liek but i dk he has a s/n but i dk if it was him on it b/c he was like it is me it is me but i was like w/e b/c he was saying i love you i love you and all this crap do you htink i should talk ot him anymore b/c if that was him whut should i do it might not be him and i was like yo dont act like this if you are that guy and i dk whut shoudl i do talk to him or not!?!?!?
talk to him. Say now "name" I really want the truth is this you or not. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. Good Luck
Chloe*
I just met this new hot girl and we became really close now and she has tons of friends but everytime i go up to her shes always waving to me and we hold hands but i asked her out and she said wait then 2 weeks later she goes with my friend michael WTF did i do wrong?!!?
Ok...Well i dont think you did nethang wrong!Maybe she thought she liked you but then she met Micheal and liked him better!Maybe she wasnt ready to be with you. Or maybe she just doesnt realize her feelings for you yet. Just try to wait it out. Until her and Michael break up. And see if you still feel the same. And if you do then tell her. She will never kno how u feel until you tell her.
I started hanging out with this girl she's really popular I mean homecoming queen and everything. I like her so much and I really want to tell her how i feel about her. One reason I wont is because she still likes her ex boyfriend and she cant stop talking about him. She only likes me as her best friend and nothing more but I want to at least let her give me a chance so what should I do? PLEASE HELP!!
Just tell her how you feel. I mean not letting her know is just going to hurt you worse. So just tell her how you feel. And if your friendship is affected then yall obviously were too close. but just think if you didnt have a chance to tell her how you felt and she was gone. Just tell her. You have nothing to lose. good luck
Chloe*