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Q: This summer, this girl moved across the street from me. It's been six months and we've been best friends ever since. For the past month or two she has been annoying me and we get into arguements like every day. She copies everything everyone does... it's likes she can't even be herself. Im not even sure I really know her. Not to mention... she thinks it's my fault that I get mad at the things she does. I don't not wanna be friends with her! What do I do?
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Just tell her to change or she's not your friend anymore. Tell her you dont believe in her being someone else and that you think she should really be herself. If she doesnt listen and gets all mad then she's not a real friend. A real friend woulld value what you have to say and what you think.
Good Luck!
-Rachel
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Q: My roommate has been in the hospital for almost a week now. It started out as a tooth ache, and turned into a ballooned up face. It's something that's usually pretty routine, and fixed by a week or so of penicillin and a root canal, but the penicillin din't work and it only got worse very quickly.
She feels really ugly because of her face, and has been worrying because of her tooth. Instead of just a root canal, they may have to pull the entire tooth, and it's a tooth near the front of her mouth.
I've been to see her off and on, her family has been coming, even as far as a few states over, and her boyfriend has been at the hospital pretty much non-stop so that she isn't alone there.
I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of things that I could do for her to make her feel better.
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Maybe you could bring her a big gift bag or something, maybe stuff to do in the hospital, your favorite.. whatever!
Hope she feels better!!
-Rachel
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Q: ok i have a best friend...that is a guy he is so awesome we get along so well...but i think i'm starting to like him...we have already talked about how it would be if we dated...that we don't want to ruin our friendship...i mean he did say that it would be cool if we dated we are just scared that things arn't going to work
but when girls sit there and say o i love you, your so hott...it really pisses me off he knows this becaouse i have told him...i just don't know what i should do about it...because i really want us to have something more...i'm just scared of our friendship
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Of course everyone gets scared of losing a friendship when they go into a relationship. But if you really like him you should go for it. If your not meant to be together you two will realize that and hopefully you'll stay friends afterwards.
Good Luck
-Rachel
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Q: Since I am in 8th grade, I have recently been thinking about high school and where I will be going, what courses I will be taking, etc. Right now I have a transfer to a school other than the one I am supposed to attend because I am a 'gifted' student and the school I was required to attend before I received my transfer did not have courses that would challenge me academically. While attending this school, I have made many friends of different levels of intellegence. One of my best friends is someone I never would've met if I hadn't attended this new school. She is a major part of my life and I don't want to lose her. She has helped me through some of the roughest times in my life thus far. Lately, we've been arguing and not getting along very well, but we still manage to stay friends. I really don't want to lose her. Right now, I get to see her quite frequently because we are at the same school, but next year, I'm afraid I won't be able to have this oppurtunity. She will be going to SHS and I will most likely have to go to LHS. I can most likely get another transfer, but this would majorly upset my dad because almost our entire family for the past four generations has gone to LHS. I was tlaking to my mom about it and she said my dad was really upset. Now I don't want my dad to be upset if I go to SHS but I don't want to lose my friend if I go to LHS. The only time I would be able to see her would be on weekends and at church events. She's been here for me for the past 2 years and I'm really sick of having to lose my best friend every couple of years. The people I would be attending school with at LHS are people I was friends with K-3rd grade, but I haven't seen them in almost 6 years and that is a really long time. I don't even know if they'd recognize me. I'm really lost and I just don't know what to do. I would really appreciate each and every one of your opinions and I will rate high even if you attempt to help me. Thank-you in advance! ~Brit
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If you dont want to upset your dad you should explain to him how much this friend means to you. If he still doesnt understand then go to the school you prefer. If he doesnt get over it then talk to him and ask why going to LHS is so important to him. Maybe you'll be able to compromise, as in you go to LHS, and he has to let you see your friend every weekend no matter what, or something like that. Hope I helped!
Good Luck!
-Rachel
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Heyy people! I am 13 years old and I have like rllllly long brunette hair, hazel eyes, and im pretty tall! I LOVE to sing, dance, act, hang out with my friends, shop!, go to the movies, and give advice!
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: New York!! Occupation: schoool! Age: 13 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: February 17, 2005 Answers: 31 Last Update: February 24, 2005 Visitors: 2170
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