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my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
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Well this might back fire and not work for you but it worked for me when I was in the middle of a 4 month long battle between my 2 best friends. I called them both over there and told them I wanted them to stay the night, but the thing is they didn't know that the other one was going to be there. And when they got there they were totally shocked and mad at me at first, but then I said "Look yall have me in a bad place I can't keep going back and fourth with yall, we need to settle this right now." Believe it or not...it worked! Maybe you should try that! Good luck and I hope I helped!
xox kayla xox
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* i've been going to the same school and i have alot of friends.. but im moving and going to a complete diff. school for high school~ so i dont know anybody there! and most of the people that are going to be a freshman at the high school im going to have gone from a middle school to the high school so they like know everybody.. I dont know how should i approach people i know when school starts up... and i deffinatly wana have friends to hang out with for lunch or something but i deffinatly want to get into the right group- im a preppy kinda grl~ not geeky * * sorry if that affends ne one.. so please help me on this~ thanks! (link)
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Well I had your same problem. See I move once a year because my moms job transfers her to different states. I just went up to people and was like Hi i'm Kayla i'm new here and they would take it from there. Also...during like 1st hour I met alot of different people. Don't worry i'm sure you will do fine just dont be afraid to approach people! Good luck!
xox kayla xox
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I have a serious question, Okay my best i think she is lik ebi-polar or something, she is the best friend ive ever had and shes been there for me through a whole bunch. But i think hse is bi-polar or somehting because one minute everythings normal and then the next she just snapps on me over the littlest stuff.. I mean her freindship means alot to me but i dont kno what im supposed ot do ... PLEASE HELP ME !!! (link)
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Talk to her about it! You need to tell her how you feel and tell her that it hurts you a lot when she does it. I mean she does have a disease its being bi-polar..there is medicine for it to help control it! So I mean if things don't get better within the next month then maybe yall should just take a break from yalls friendship for a while! Good luck and I hope I helped!
xox kayla xox
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Hi see im stuck in the middle of 2 friends that are guys and their both my age , they boh want to go out with me me Im looking for MR Right , what do I do??? Jenipher PLz help (link)
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Well both guys may be different...I think you should go over the Pros and Cons..who treats you better, who doesn't..whos known for cheating on his g/fs, whos not...just stuff like that!! Good Luck and I hope you do find Mr. Right.
xox kayla xox
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