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Location: Wisconsin
Age: 19
AIM: wyrmberg
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My best friend is a guy, (ryan). Latley he`s been waiting for me outside of my homeroom class and walking me to 1st period. Then we walk together to 2nd. I catch him looking at me alot and were always together in class. About a month ago he started hugging me goodbye, and latley the hugs are getting more romantic. He talks to me differently, calls me, and always wants to hang out. He has been complementing me on my outfit even when I`m wearing a t-shirt and boy`s bball shorts and his hoodie he loaned me. He says I look beautiful when I just wake up and my hairs a complete mess and I have no make up on. So, as you can see I really think he likes me more then a friend now, I`ve liked him before like this, but for some reason now, I`m enjoying all this attention and flirting he`s givin me, but I just can`t picture myself with him. What do I do ? I don't want to go out with him, we brake up, then lose our 5 years of being BFFs!
sorry for it being so long, i`ll appreciate any help.
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i know what you may be thinking, but if he has been your bff for that long, its hard not for him to start liking you that way, and if you choose to become boyfriend and girlfriend together fine, and if your break up thats ok too, you can still be friends if you break up, one of my best friends is my EX-girlfriend. see if you've been friends that long, your friendship should be able to stand the the test of the break up (wanted to use the test of time but whatever) but i hope this helped :-)
-The Man In The Black Cape
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i have always been a dancer, and all of my friends were dancers too. but then middle school came and me and my friends did dance and band. i was the only one of my friends who kept doing band because i really enjoyed being in drumline, and now being in high school all my old friends are on the dance team, and i have tons of new friends from drumline. i love hanging out with my old friends but it seems we dont have much in common anymore. i always come home from drumline all happy, or when im hanging out with my drumline friends im always having fun and not worrying about drama or any other crap like that, but then i go back to my other friends and theres all this drama and they talk about stuff that they do and will do right in front of me, even though they dont plan on inviting me. i just get upset and depressed around them. the thing is that weve been friends since elementary school and i cant just dump them, and they get all upset when i dont hang out with them. and im really starting to get sick of it all. please help me! what should i do!? (link)
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... I actually just dealt with this situation in my life. what I did was just totally broke all ties to that group of friends, but they treated me horrably and were talking about me behind my back. so i sugest that you just start haning out with you band friends more and more while still keeping in contact with the dance group, just keep in touch with your best friend in the dance group and thats about it. but ya just keep in contact with your best friend in the dance group and see if she sould want to do stuff with the band friends of yours.
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