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Q: My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??

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hey i kind of have the same problem with one of my friends she will be so nice to me when she is only with me then when we are with are other friends she will be kind of a jerk. well i found out the best hting to do is to talk to her about it and kind of tell her how much it is affecting you. well i hope my advice helped :)

Q: Okay, I have this friend, Charles, and he is kinda my exboyfriend I guess. But since the day I met him and to this very second, he has changed a lot. He used to be caring and sweet. Now he's mean and an asshole. I don't know like what to do because he blames it on me saying I'm the asshole. So today I told him we should pretend we don't know each other for awhile and he's all like "well I know what's gonna happen, it'll be awkward to talk and we'll drift apart." Which personally is what I wanted because I want my old life back. And I told him that, and I also told him that I don't want him talking to my friends becuase he would have never known them if it wasn't for me. I know it sounds selfish, but he talks about me to them everyday and says all this stuff, which mostly isn't true, then they all like ask me questions. I'm like arghh!! Like I'm totally sick of it and I need help because now he's all like, "no that ridiculus, I'm not gonna stop talking to them." And tonight all of my friends got into a fight. I just stopped crying. I'm tired of it. I've had like major breakdowns where i just have to sit or else I'll kill someone. It's horrible. What should I do? Please help.



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i think you should totally forget about him really like if he tries to call dont pick up and if he tries to come over (i know this sounds mean but) say get off my property or else i am calling the cops. only if he is really upsetting you (by the way it sounds like he is) and if you dont want him talking to your friends and he wont liston tell them not to talk to him cause i know if their your true friends and they care about you they will do whatever it takes for you. and if he dosent go away tell him you are not thretend by him and will call the police if he doesnt stop because if he is causing all of these fights then he has no right to be around anymore. well i hope my advice helped:)

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