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Q: this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!
u should invite her over and seriously talk...
if she still denies it than maybe danielle was just mad at you for saying that she said crap about her, so she lied to u, just because she was mad. or youir "best bud" is sain stuff 'buot everyone, and you should ask her about that 2.
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Q: This issue requires so background info: Long story short is that my best friend and ex bf (well call bob) broke up with my best friend (well call chica) to go out with me. She was hurt at first but now we are ok. One of my other close friends, well call Joe, goes out with a freshman. That is not the issue. The issue is that he is doing the same exact thing that Bob did with chica. He is dating freshman because she is safe. She is in 'love' with him and thinks they will marry. He knows it won't last and just lets her believe whatever she wants. he doesn't understand that the longer he waits to break up with her the more it is going to hurt her. On to of all that his best friend, well call ashley, likes him and he likes her. When I try to explain to him what he is doing he starts to ignore me and is like I really don't care. Joe and I are like brothers and I just want him to at least realize that he is going to hurt freshman more if he waits. And he is loosing Ashley as a best friend and even maybe a girlfriend the longer he waits to break up with freshman. I just want to know if what i am doing is right and how i should approach him.
yes, you r ok. your friend -Joe- just seems like he doesn't want to hurt her and he wants to have her + n e one else, i guess he just doesn't want to let go. hope you can get through to him!
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yes you are doing the right thing. just remember that in the end you know that you tried to help.
good luk 2 ya!
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Q: there's this guy i like but i don't know if he likes me and at first i hated him because he kept mentioning what his friend said about me( like saying i was ugly) but he said sorry and said he wouldn't say it anymore and now hes flirting with me. it seems like he does it to the 2 most popular girls in the school( me and Claire.) but i ddon't know if it means he likes me or not. because first he put his arm around me then touched my butt!! but he does that to my friend too sooo help please
allright. you should..... when he puts his arms around u then you go for it to! if you like him you should definitly get to him before your friend Claire, if she likes him because she probly likes him too, so flirt like him bac and got to the movies or somethin, but i think bringin Claire,no offense, might mess your date up.just cuz he flirts w/ her.
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hey, if you really like him you should put your arm around him to. if he goes for your butt dont go that far.just ask him if he likes you. if he says no, make him stop goin for the butt. if he says yes, ask him out. trust me, it'll work!
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Q: I moved to a new school and made friends with a lot of people but the ones I usually hang out with are Michelle and Mimi...well....personally, I don't really like them. We're just in the same homeroom and stuff. The other friends of mine, they are like a group and really close to each other so whenever I talk to them I always get lost and just sit there and listen to their conversation. Well, Mimi, she lies a lot, she's a copy cater, and a wannabe. Michelle, she acts really nerdy and a copy cater too. I've noticed that they copied me a lot...I don't really want to be friends with them but I don't want to hurt their feelings or anything and some other reasons like Mimi would starts spreading rumors about me...so What should I do?

Ight. wen they are copiing then, if you hatem' real bad, rite sumthig on your paper like..
STOP cOpYiN'! r sumthin like that. or you could just tell them 2 nock it off. either way, the 1st way is funnier.if you dont want to be their friends make others in your homeroom and slowly don't be theirs.
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hey, im an expert at this stuff. just slowly stop talking to them and sitting by them. theyll get the picture. but it has to be slow, or they might think real bad about you and start rumors. just make friends you can have fun with and not get rejected by. dont let anybody use you.
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Q: I'm really bad at starting conversations with people. I've been rejected by SO many guys because I'm "to quiet". I know i should be myself but the thing is that I don't want to be the girl that keeps her mouth shut all the time. If you could give me some good ways to start good conversations with people (Boys mostly) that would be great. Thanks!

Say stuff that they are interested in like ...
singers or, if u like this , sports.Sum guys just like talking about anythig so, just figure out what thhey like and be a BIG chatter-box, it might even help you to c what they like and if you like them!
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hey! it is definately hard to talk to guys. just be outgiong, find out what they like. dont be so nervouse, dont think, and go for it, trust me!!!!!
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