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Q: well my best friend went on a mission trip and met this guy and now she really likes him. and then today they went out together and he asked her out and she said yes! they have only known each other for a week and a half and shes only a sophmore while hes a senior!! im really upset. i think it was really stupid. shes never had a boyfriend because shes usually smart about guys but now shes making bad decisions. they started holding hands and stuff before they even dated! and i wouldnt care but THEYVE ONLY KNOWN EACH OTHER A LITTLE OVER A WEEK! and shes said YES whan he asked her out!! i just cant be happy for her because now i know shes gonna start kissing him and im upset because i want to be happy for her when she gets her first kiss and when she has her first relationship but i feel like shes giving up for a guy she barely knows!!!! i of course will talk to her about it but what should i do? he does seem genuine but neither of us hardly know him! if shes thinks hes right shouldnt she at least wait a little? especially before she gives up her first kiss and who knows what else!! please help :)
most of the reason why im upset is im really worried about her getting hurt. a guy broke my heart and i dont want her to get close to him and trust him for him to betray her. if she knew him better i would feel more comfortable about trusting him but i cant trust a guy shes only known for a week 1/2! and i do think they should date just..not yet.
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WOW this was a long question. [Stretching and yawning] Ok, well, I have the same problem with my friend too. What I did was to ask her if she's sure that this guy is her 'mr. right'? She said yes and became angry I was asking her sumthing like that-- Well, back to you... You should talk with her and ask her that. Tell her not to give out too much secrets yet. They are way too early in this relationship to start trusting and stuff. You also should stop getting too- um too upset over the small developing situation... Just leave it alone. Tell her that you are worried and tell her all the bad this you think he might do to her. SHe'll come to you when she finds out that this guy might not be the 'mr. right' for her or sumthing. Just don't be too crazy about the situation. Chill a sec and breath, gots me? :]
*~sweetsuga76~*
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Wuzzup?! I am 14 and live in da' US! I love to give advice and love to see the people I give advice to, see their faces brighten when I give them advice. Ask me anything and I'll try to answer! Thanks for your time! :]
(PS: U can IM or email me 4 questions if you need some! :])
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: da U.S! Occupation: Student Age: 14 AIM: Member Since: August 12, 2008 Answers: 5 Last Update: August 18, 2008 Visitors: 1930
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