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♥ hellur! my name is ren, and i'm sixteen. i'm obsessed with everything music related, you have a music question, ask me. unless it pertains to country, rap, or pop. because that isn't my forte. ♥ i love everything emo.
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Okay Renzbee. There's a girl named Kassi at my school &&she accused me of saying stuff behind her back. And I admit that I did, but I apologized for it. So now she's ignoring me. But the part that bugs me is, that I only said that stuff to my bestfriend Courtney. And, she claims she didn't tell her. So, when I said alright. She accused me, of accusing her. &&I had Rissa in my away message like three times, and she also said I was trying to make her jealous &&feel like shit. What should I do? I've been friends with her for four years &&i don't think it's right that I should apologize when I didn't accuse her of anything or try to make her jealous. Help please dear?
Drugs are bad, mmkay? No, but..for serious, I'd talk to her and Kassi. I'd say, "Hey Kassi, who'd you hear that from? Did you hear it from Courtney?" The go to Courtney and says, "Look, I'm sorry that you think I'm accussing you of this, but Kassi told me she heard it from you, and you're the only person that I told it to. So you must have told Kassi or someone else who end up telling Kassi." Just something to that effect, don't badger it out of her, just simply ask. Hope that helps.
♥Ren
My best friend has been dating my ex boyfriend.She decided that she wants to dump him(thanx to me being her wake-up call), but she doesn't want to hurt him. How can I make her listen? He's a jerk, but she thinks it's her fault! She needs to hear me out. We are both 14 and he is 16. Help!
You should sit her down and say, "Hey, this is what happened with him and me," then tell her that she shouldn't worry about hurting his feelings because in the end, everyone will be happier. If she's to the point where she wants to break up with him, she can't be happy. So, if she breaks up with him, in the end she'll be happier not being in a relationship she doesn't want to be in. Plus, she's only fourteen, she's got her whole life ahead of her to break boys hearts. :)
♥Ren