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the most important thing to keep in mind in this situation is your age. yes, that sounds stupid, but it is soooo important. when i was 13, one of my best friends asked me out (i had known for a little it was coming, so considered what i should do. i loved him so much, in a friend-way, and he meant so much to me. yet!! i have seen what happens to the best friends around me that went out then became enemies after they broke up!!! i mean, i would have loved to go out with him... but i was so young, and whne you go out with someone at such a young age like 13... you are soooo bound to breakup and lose an awesome friendship. man i sound like dr. phil or sumthing.... ignore the cheesiness of this whole response. laugh out loud (yeah, they block the abbreviation of that... go figure...)) and when he asked me out i said no. i, personally, set my own priorities in an order that suits me. for all i know,you could really be into that whole dating at a young age thing, or you coudl be like 17... whatever. i just decided to let you know what i did in that situation... i really hope you make the rite decision for yourself. my guy, adam, and i became better friends after i said \"no, im really sorry adam.. but i love you, just not in the boyfriend way, and i love you enough to knwo i dont want to lose our kick-ass friendship if we would breakup...\" i knew our breakup would have been inevitable... and he is such a great guy. i may have hurt him a little, but it all came out for the better
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