My Name Is Stephanie. I am 17 years old and I am Married with a baby. Other than that I have a pretty normal Life. I am Hoping to hear from you and answer your questions and give you the best advice I can give. On everyday things, Love, depression, stress, anything you need. Hope to hear from you. And I promise to give you the best advice I can give. I am not a trained professional but I am here to help.
xx Stephanie
Website: Stephies Answers
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: Stay at Home mom
Age: 17
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We all here are probably in school, or out of school but we have all atended it. I'm that girl that's not good looking but have friends of both genders. I hear Im very bubbly, and outgoing. But at home Im the complete oppisite. I think I am suffering from depression, I just dont have the guts to tell my parents about it.
I do not get along with my Father at all. We can't have a decent conversation EVER. And my Moms never home, but when she is she's never listening. Anyway, during the past 9 months I haven't slept over anyones house. I hate my home but I have the oppurtunity to leave, but say something like O my Mom wont let me, or Babysetting sorry. And sometimes I get all excited and be like Yehh and ask and everything but right before be like Nooo I shouldn't and lie about why I can't. I dont know why... at school Im happy and sometimes forget about something that happiended at Home. But at home, it's like facing a concrete wall that goes on for miles. And I waste my tiem trying to see thru it.
I feel like im shutting everyone out... and im not trying to. I donno if its because Im scared or what. But tomarrow is the begining of summer and Im going over Skyes house. I a, kinda second guessing myself tho but i want plans for the summer.
Can you explain to me why I am shutting people out? How I can stop... and how do I get the corage to talk to my Mother about possibly being Depressed and how do Doctors find out?
Do they like check ur brain or something? I have no clue[obviously.] (link)
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Ok well first I have suffered from depression and hunni you got it. It is nothing to be ashamed of so just be brave and say hey mom I have something to talk to you about and no it cant wait it is an emergency. Then sit her down and tell her what is going on. Tell her you think you need to see a counceller and get the help you need. No lol they dont check your brain they listen to what you say and then they have you put on a medication that will defiantlly help you out. You dont want to mess with this stuff hunni get the help you need. And if you ever and I mean EVER get the slightest feeling that you want to commit suicide even if it is at 3 am go straight to your parents and tell them you need to be sent to the phsyc ward. I beed there twice nothing to be afraid of it is actually fun and they work with you on your problems. If no one is home dial 911 and tell them and they will be out ammideatliy if not sooner. Dont mess with this depression is a life death thing even if you dont think it can be. If its something you really need to talk about email me and i will give you my number and i will talk to you so you can see what to do even if its late k my email is loveyabunchesmls@aol.com i am always on so dont be afraid just email saying hi regarding advice and your name and i will give it to you k. dont let it get to far please here are crisis numbers they are free so if you cant get ahold of me call this asap
USA National Suicide Hotlines
Toll-Free / 24 hours / 7 days a week
1-800-SUICIDE
1-800-784-2433 1-800-273-TALK
1-800-273-8255
TTY: 1-800-799-4TTY (4889)
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15/f
Uh so sometimes, when I talk to guys my age, it's really hard to talk to them because of you know what: hormones. My mind just fogs over and I stop thinking and I say retarded things, even though I have no romantic interest in the guy at all. I don't get nervous around guys, it's just that when I anticipate myself messing up, I get nervous to talk to them. (also the thought of looking directly into certain guys' eyes makes me nervous)
How do I make myself handle talking to guys better? ty in advance (link)
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Ok first be calm and relax. Be yourself dont try to be different just to impress someone. Dont be nervous even if you like the guy. With practice It will get better.
Hope I helped and remember be calm!!!
Stephanie
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