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my friend is giving me a really hard time, because i didn't go somewhere with her, she makes fun of me and my myspace http://www.myspace.com/x333333

and she makes fun of me because she really doesn't know me... like she makes fun of that i don't have a bf at the moment, she acts like my time keeper, she schedules things for me, she hurts me, and she gets me in trouble, ALOT.. so how can i make her calm down and stay the way we were or not? help mee!!

o and yeah, she really REALLY needs some help, i didnt go somewhere with her and she is like "you know what? im never talking to you, dont call me, dont im me anymore, and dont even think about me, or visit my myspace, or even look at my things, i sware to god, if you do, you won't be alive by the next day" so she really needs help, badlyy, MENTLE PROBLEMS? maybey?

x0o PLEASE HELP MEEE PLEASE!!!


form - - being bullied (link)
Okay i say.. ditch her.. listen to wut she said dont talk to her dont have anything to do with her.. its not right for someone to treat you like that.. i wouldnt take that from anyone and i dont think you should.. so i think it would be a good idea for you to just steer clear from her..


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I have this friend thats my neighbor and ive known him all my life pretty much and like we used to be unseparable ((spelling)) and now like since i got a little older and he got more into his baseball and paintball its like were fading apart and i just dont want that to happen because i would die for him if it came down to that and i juss REALLY dont wanna lose him cuz hes like the little brother i never had,,,does anyone have any suggestions on what i could do to help this friendship?!?

I rate HIGH if you can help! (link)
ask him to do some stuff.. and go fishin with him i kno he likes to fish ((i kno him)) and talk to him on here when hes on..




Ok..My friend Max brought this friend with him to my house and like to where we work and everything and like my and his friend, MarC, had a connection you know like I'd known him my WHOLE life and like we were best friends or something and like at the end of the summer he has to go back home to GA and i live in NC and im worried that ill never see him again or talk to him or nething is there anything i can do to like keep in touch since it would be too far to call all the time and im not sure if he has a computer?!?

I rate HIGH! (link)
okay.. you can see how things go but at the end of summer if he dont got a cp write to him n use your cell to call every once in a while.. you kno how it be.. call me if you needs nemore help you kno the number


iok yesterday i went to my friends house and she told me there was a guy that looked like a guy that i used to like and had the name of my ex. so i wanted to see him.. nothin else. but then my friends cousin hooked us up and i dont even noe the guy i would have said no but her cousin told him i liked him. the problem is he is 20 and i am well 14.. he didnt care about the age but i have a clsoe guy friend that i like a lot we are planning to hook up we just have to find a way to see each other more. (he lives 15 min. away) and my friend is 15.. i want to give this guy a chance because he was all sweet to me but i think the only reason why he asked me out was 4 my looks. but we were taking pictures and he had his hands all over me and he didnt even noe me. here is what i would like to noe:

*should i give him a chance? if not how can i break it to him but still wanting to get to noe him better?

*should i tell my guy friend about this?
i want to tell my guy friend but he thinks i dont like him which isnt true i tell him i like all the time and he does the same to me..

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i dont think that you should give the 20 year old guy a chance.. to me he sounds like a major perv.. but i think you should tell your guy friend about it i mean its not right to keep things from your friends but remind him how you feel about him.. hope this *helps*


My best friends in the world, Kayla & Bridget are always good to me. But lately, Bridget hasen't been. She hangs out with a lot of other girls who are mean, and doesn't act like her old self. I have no idea what's going on, and Kayla is away to New York for the WHOLE summer and i miss much [i live in virginia]

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I think you sould talk to your friend Bridget.. ask her why she is changing.. but be careful how you say things though because if it comes out the wrong way she may get mad.. and on the whole missing Kayla thing.. just think about all the great times you have had together and look forward to her coming home!!

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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age> (link)
most ppl start to mature more in middle school.. i'm still in middle school(last year there) and i have matured a lot over the past 2 years now i have friends i can call cryin and they will listen and be there for me..


so theres this boy at my old school and we were like best friends and then his weird girlfriends always got in our way so he pushed me off. so i gave him the cold shoulder. then he calls me and asked me if he could go out with my (old)bestfriend and i guess they were talking behind my back and it really pissed me off. so i started balling on the phone and just hung up. then we started talking again and im over him but he was crushing on me. and now he has this new girl and i havent talked to him for like 2 months. he has totally forgot me. what should i do? (link)
.. i think you should call the guy and ask him why he is blowing you off.. he may not realise he is and if you let him know about it he can try harder to talk to you and pay more attention to you..and after you ask him if he still doesnt change then just let it go..

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