Hey guys what's crack-a-lackin? I'm Marissa or Missi (whichever you like best) I'm a 15 year old girl who loves to have fun and is always lookin' for trouble=)I'm 5'7", 125lbs., long brunette hair, hazel eyes, freckles. I'm outgoing and optimistic. I am a loud, obnoxiously, spoiled brat. I love to talk, and I like listening to people even more. So if you ever wanna chat.. I'm your girl! I don't care what other people think of me. Either you like me, or you don't. It's your loss not mine. I'm very open minded to new people and new situations. I'll try anything, other than gross food. I have tons of friends but am always looking for more. My favorite things to do are sing, dance, play soccer, talk on the phone and computer, skate, and hang out with my best friend Hailei. I currently don't have a boyfriend but when I do I spend tons of time with him whenever I get a chance. That's all you need to know for now. Hit me up for more.
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My best friend and I got in fight like a month ago and it awas the stupidest fight ever I cant even remember what it was... well we kinda lost communication cause she just started ignoring me(and what sucks is we hang out with the same ppl so I will be standing next to her but we wont talk) and then like last week i was aim and we started apoligizing and got everything worked out... but at school its like we still arent friends cause i will be standing right next to her and we wont say one word... it feels really awkard... but i miss her so much and I dont know what to do I mean Ive told her how much I miss talking to her... I feel like Ive been replaced... I just want my best friend back and I dont know how to do it? I have cried so much just because of the fact that i cant talk to her and tell her everything anymore... it hurts me so much at school to be standing next to her and not talk... i cant really tell anyone how im feeling cause I just want to cry... I am trying to make my self realize that were just not bestfriends anymore but its way too hard... i need advice do I need to make myself realize were just not the same or do i gotta do something and get My BF back and if so HOW???
PLEASE HELP!!!
SIGNED:I WANT MY BF BACK! (link)
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WoW! We have the same story. I was in this situation a while back (everything's great now). My advice for you is when you see her in the hall way just talk to her like nothing ever happened. Don't act sad and 'weird' just be normal. As if everything was perfect between ya'll. After about a week if nothing changes move on. It'll be best for you.
Best Wishes!
sh0w3rg3lbaby
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Tell me if I'm over-reacting, but...
My best friend Sara came over yestery, and we started watching a movie, Raise Your Voice. And, well, these guys call her. Background info about the guys, one of the guys and sara were supposed to go out but sara's best friend (now ex) stold him away from her, and the other, well they kicked it and he started standing her up, so things stopped. But yeah, they called her saying they were going to some park/lake nearby and they wanted her to go with. She knew I couldn't go, and then she called another friend and begged HER to go with. Then when she got off the phone she looked at me and was like, are you mad?e I said yeah maybe. Then she's like oh I'm such a bad friend... and calls the guys back saying come pick me up! Agg! Who does that? Thats the reason her last friendship, fell apart, her other friends ditched Sara and so she should know how it feels. This isn't the first time we foughta. We fight a lot. And today in the morning I didn't call her up for school like usual and she calls half hour later saying why didn't i call her to wake her up?and i said that i thought she'd be up already, and sjhe clicked. so then at the bus stop i didnt go anywhere nearher and then she came to me to give me my books back and take hers and said something ... then called me abithc. I dont know what to do, everyone likes her. SHe talks about everyone behind their back. Agggh it drives me insane because no one believes me! I will give you a 5 if you give me a good response. Thanks in advance! :=) (link)
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Here's my brilliant answer. It's time to get a new friend. Don't worry about if everyone believes you or not just worry about the fact that YOU know what kind of 'friend' she is, or shall I say isn't. You can do way better than this chick. If she's ditching you for guys and talking trash then she's just wasting your time and doesn't care about you.
BestOfLuck,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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i need serious help! my friend gets mad extremely easyly! And she doesnt want to be friends w/ my other beset friends! Just b'cuz she calls her fattie like 3 times! SHE CALLS EVERYONE FATTIE, its just a habit! So, i tried to fix things and said "I'll talk to her." and i did!!! then she calls her it ones and is sry, she just forgot. And now *sally* (not real name, using fake name) is mader than ever! And shes sry. but *sally* is still totally pissed! And she wont listen to me when i say that she didnt mean anything by it!
what do i do! they cant stop being friends, it'll totally brake the group!!!
sorry, if its long! (link)
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You can't make someone be friends. If you want to still talk to both of them that's your choice but don't force them to talk. It obviously isn't a relationship that is meant to work so just leave it alone. If they are meant to be friends it'll happen if not atleast YOU can still talk to both of them.
Best Wishes,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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I have a friend who was going out with this one girl. he's 18 and really loved her. they even talked about getting married! Then one night at a party he did a lot of things with another girl at a party, and after that she had sex with someone els. He was so mad that he cheated on his girlfriend with a "slut" and when his girlfriend found out she was puking and screaming. Now my friend wants to kill himself and im scared. Besides going to an adult, how can i help him? (link)
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Talk to him. Let him know that everyone makes mistakes and it's ok. Remind him how many love him and will miss him if he takes the easy way out. He needs to face his problems and if he really loves this girl then she'll be worth all the problems he's going to have to deal with. Just let him know he's loved.
Best Wishes!
Sh0w3rG3lBaby
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