i am going into my sophmore year in high school. i am 15 years old. I am very interested in the theatre program at my high school i was in the two plays last year at my school behind stage and someday on the stage. When i get out of high school I plan on going to collage and want to be eaither some kind of nurse or a marinebiologist. I love the marine animals.
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Location: South Lyon MI.
Age: 15
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have you ever had a friend that's told you they've kept something from you for a long time and that they're afraid of telling you what it is because they're afraid your gonna look at them differently and not be they're friends anymore..then you ask them what it was but they don't say anything.. what would you tell them, or do in this situation??? just need some advice from other people.... thankz * Skyla * (link)
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If your friend thinks that you won't be your friend anymore because of this, then thats not what a true friend should think. You should tell that person that it will be okay whatever it is i will still be your friend not matter what it should not matter what happens this is probly something that your friend needs help with and it would be nice if you told that person that you will help them and get through it no matter what it is and you will always be there friend.
Good luck!
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At the begining of the school year last year , there was a guy in my Spanish class. Gradually we became really close friends, and the more I hung out with him, the more I relized that I really liked him. At both of my best friends pressuring, I told him that I liked him.
How I told him is that I wrote a note telling him. I know it was very childish to do so but I am happy now that I did not tell him in person.
His response to me telleing him was that 'He would never consider being more than friends with a black person.' His words exactly, then after a few days of me fuming and wanting to kill him, he says that he only said that to spare my feelings. He said that he really did not like me the way I liked him, but I think he was lying. Now I feel a little uncomfortable around him, should I tell him how I feel about him now? Or should I leave well enough alone. I'll take any advice. I am an African American female, and he is a white male.
We have currenlty (well he believes we have) settled down and are now still good friends, although I am not sure that the hurt I feel will ever go away, and I am not sure that our friendship can last. I thought he was a very nice guy, and besides what he said he has been a very good friend to me.
My friend thought that by saying he does not like black people, he would hurt my feelings less than if he said he did not like me. I find this very stupid, andhe should have said he just does not like me, and like a stated before, i think he lied about that because he only said it when I said I did not want to be friends with him anymore.. Even now, long after the sutuation 'ended' I still don't feel as comfortable around him as I used to. Please help. He has been a really good friend to me, I'm just not sure if I can stay friends with him.
((I've asked this question before. I did not get many answers though.)) (link)
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i think that you should tell this person how you feel those bad feelings now that you have can only get worse and not better. It was really wrong to say what he did but that is the way some people are you should tell this person everything you feel about it. If you don't want to be friends with a person that says things like that i don't blame you but there is a you can try and fix this relationship as friends. Talk it out.
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i am going to see these guys tomorrow the first time since like two/three weeks and i am soo excited! but my friend is going to be there too and whenever i am with them and she is there she judges me and i don't want her to. i just want to have fun with them and do what I want. how can i make this happen without dealing wiht my friend judgeing me? (link)
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Your friend does not seem like a friend t ome good friends don't judge people like that. You might want to talk to her and tell her that you don't really like being juged like that and if you don't like the way i am i am sorry i am not going to change it for you. I don't think you shoulld change who you are for that sake of someone else i will only make matters worse because if you chane one thing then they will want more things change. You could also try and not go everywhere with that friend that does that to you. I don't feel that, that is a very good friendship. They should not treat you this way.
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my best friend lives across the street and we have carpooled to school every day since kindergarten. now we're in middle school and we're allowed to get to school an hour early if we want, to hang out in the cafeteria and talk to friends. I love doing that, but my friend isn't very sociable and she refuses to go early. Our moms are fine with driving us separately, but my friend is all mad at me now for "breaking the tradition" and not riding to school together. but going early is like the only chance we get in school to hang out with friends. what should i do? (link)
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You could intoduce her to some of your other friend to make her like them more and become more sociable and will like to come with you to school early. If that dose not work then maybe you should take turns on going early to school so somedays you could go to school with you and others not.
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