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my friend...... is so depressed.. i was, but now im happier than ever. It feels so good being happy. I want her to feel that too, but its so hard. I just want her to live. and not let life pass her by. i donno wat to do.

Tell her what you just said. That you care for her and you dont want her life to pass her by. Take her places you know she will enjoy and have fun. The more fun she starts to have the less depressed she will be.

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my friends r still mad at me and i asked them why and they will not tell me the school year is coming up and i do not want to be without any friends i want to have friends and i want some of the same friends but they wont talk to me someone help me plz how can i keep them as my friends?

Sounds like they arent very good friends if they wont tell you why they are mad. Think of it as a good oppurtunity. You will be able to make new friends. When you come into something with out a group of friends, you will be able to make friends easier and come out stronger in the end. Its going to suck at first, but if they are treating you like that.. dont worry about it, make friends, enjoy school.

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I have this friend that changes me every time I hang out wth her. I end up doing thigs I normally wouldnt do, and things I end up regretting. I have to lie to everyine, even my closest friends and family just to cover up some of the things we've done together. But we have a lot of fun when we hang out and she really is my friend. We've been friends for 3 years. I'm just so confused.

It sounds like she really isnt a friend if she is putting you in a situation your gonna have to lie about. Just say no, or tell her you dont feel comfortable doing something. If it helps any, have other friends with you when you hang out. Talk to her about how you feel and if she is a true friend, she will understand. Easier said than done.

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