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HI!!! MY NAMES RAUSHELLE AND I LIVE IN TEXAS... god im such a loser... WELL IM A LOSER WHO CAN ANSWER YOUR PROBLEMS.... putting my talents to use.

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hi. i dont have a boyfriend and i want one and ive never had one bc im ugly. ive been really sad lately bc i want one. i feel lonely .. what should i do?? =( (link)
uhm just wait for the right guy... there really isnt that much to say about this.... And dont say your ugly cause guys love confidence.... Hope I helped**Raushelle


Hey..
I like this guy n i think he likes me too. Im scared to ask him out cuz my friends will maybe b mad at me well i hope it will all work out and im really scared..thank u! (link)
If there your real friends I dont think that they will make you chose between a guy and them... and if they do just talk to them. Explain how this guy makes you happy and you wanna be with him, but you also want to be with ur friends to. If that doesnt work then they probably arent good friends and you dont need them around. But make sure you REALLY like this guy before giving up your friends for him....

HOPE I HELPED!
[[Raushelle]]


Hey. I'm friend with a lot of guys in skool. they hate ehrn im not around. all they do is talk to me and stuff. i dont like any of them but, im a girl. should i hang out wit otha girl or stay friends wit the boyz? (link)
Totally stay friends with the guyz. I have all guy friends but one. There so much better though cause they dont sugar coat everything and stuff. And plus they dont play childish games like most girls play. I dont knnow .... i just think that like there more real with you if you know what i mean. Stay with them.

[[raushelle]]


my friend always tells me im her best friend, but she tells everyone else that too. im never in her info on AOL or nothing @ all! in her xanga its all about these other people like how much she misses them and stuff. what should i do about this problem?? (link)
You seem clingy. I know shes your best friend and all and you want it to stay that way but yeah. Talk to her about it. Maybe she just feels sorry for those other ppl and tells them that. Talk to her!!

[[raushelle]]


A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u (link)
Theres really not a good answer for that. you could take it as a compliment. There really just admiring you. But i understand. You could tell them it makes you feel uncomfortable. Or compliment them back. I understand it could embaress you when they say those things in public but trust me it is a gift. Admit it. Ur obviously a babe ;)

[[raushelle]]


my "best friend" copies me a lot and it gets on my nerves. But yesterday she bought the same purse that I've had only for like a month when I asked her not to get it. Then she returned it but layed on the guilt and she mae me feel really bad because she said she was jealous of me cuz I have a great life, but i moved to TX from MD last year, and she said that moving wasnt a big deal but it was and so she wants to be fine and friends again but she really pissed me off and I don't really want to be her friend anymore so I don't know what to do now(I am 11 and a girl) (link)
that happens to me. i hate it. it is NOT a form of flattery its the biggest fricken annoyance ever. id dump her if you could. If shes a really good frien just like talk to her. but she wont understand shell just get pissy and guilt you. i hate that. what i did is i talked to her about it.... dint help. so now were kinda good friends but ignoring eachother lol... hope i somewhat helped!


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I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore! (link)
You sound liek your to clingy but idk you so here we go! lol. uhm well you could confront her about it but that would make her more angry at you than she might be already. So what i would do is try to do more exciting or adventurous things or just things that you to have never done before. She may feel like maybe you guys could hang out more.

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Raushelle!


Does anyone know any good quotes or songs that are about saying sorry or that say sorry in them. Im in a fight with one of my friends and i need something cause just plain saying sorry and it was a mistake isnt working. Any ideas? (link)
Well lol i have one for if you guys dont talk anymore like me and my (ex)bestfriend did... (the song isnt why it dint work out)

try D12'z song how come.!.

if you need the lyrics go to www.azlyrics.com

((good site))

Raushelle!


hey - my best friend has this boyfriend .. and like i KNOW shes to good for him and whenever the THREE of us chill something goes down and she gets mad at me .. because i "flirt" with him .. like i try not to and shes such a bitch sometimes i just cant take it and then .. she goes and chooses him over me .. how can i tell her hes no good without hurting her .. and this is something that totally bugs me .. you have NOO CLUE .. and maybe if it was 2 guys and 2 girls i wouldnt get into a fite with her .. and you know what i cant help that i like her boyfriend a lil cause he is really really HOT .. help me please !! (link)
OK! uhm to me you really just sound jealous. no offence. but yeah and ive had partially the same thing tho, like when i was with my best friend and her boyfriend (total hottie) and they would invite me along places and i would end up feeling left out. But eventually i just started talking to her boyfriend ill call dan. Dan and i would talk/flirt and she would get pissed but in the end he cheated on her so i realized i dint want his sorry ass. lol. hope i helped in some way.

*Raushelle**




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