My friend and I used to be so close but now one of my other friends is sort of stealing my friend away from me. All three of us used to be really good friends but now im being pushed out of the group. i dont want to loose her because we have been friends since pre-school. we are now in grade 7 (almost 8)
What do i do?????
Well if you and your friend were real close then pull her to the side and tell her how you feel and then maybe things will work out.
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16/F
Okay, it took me about ten years to make all the friends I have now and at the time, they were all wonderful. We acted like kids, we cried on each other's shoulders, we shared secrets, told jokes, had the best time of our lives and now, it's all completely ruined. I have friends who are doing drugs, smoking, and drinking, having sex, and dating guys online who've they've never even met and claim they want to marry him. I have two friends, let's call them Z.S and A.D, who're in a huge fight over some really nasty guy who lives several states away and they both claim they love him, telling each other that the other doesn't love him as much as they do. It's really ridiculous and they're acting like a couple of drama queens. Another friend of mine, A.C, is dating a guy online she's never met, who's slipped up while talking to me before, and he tells her these totally outrageous stories about how he's being sent to a special school for gay/bisexual boys with his brother, who was diagnosed with lung cancer. Another friend of mine, M.R is obsessed with smoking, drinking, and bragging about how she's getting her ID so she can buy cigars and stuff. I'll admit, I did something kind of bad a couple years ago, but I haven't done anything since because what happened scared me. It basically turned me a bit of a coward, but I think it was for the better because I became happy and optimistic, life is awesome if you make it that way. And now that I've started hanging out with my friends again, since we hardly have any classes together, they're ruining everything amongst ourselves. I think they're doing it because they're bored and quite frankly, it's just aggravating me. I don't want to be friends with them anymore, but I don't want to show up at school and get beat up or anything. Not to mention I'd feel super bad about telling them flat out... I'm more of a loner, though, and I have two friends I talk to everyday online when I get home and they're the only ones who understand (btw, I've met them in real life before I met them online). I really don't know what to do anymore and I kind of feel bad for wanting to ditch them, but I just can't handle all the stress again from taking sides and getting involved with this stuff...
Listen you shouldn't feel bad people outgrow each other and the stuff that your friends are doing is wrong you should ask the to stop there crap.Tell them your not like that and that you want them to stop, maybe its just the stuff they doing if you show them you care maybe they will stop and you guys could be friends.
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18/Female/ Ok,sorry if this is long,but I would love it if someone responded. ok so I'm soo lonely! I have like nooo friends anymore! I also am more of a quiet person, which I hate about myself! ): because I feel like its the reason why people dont like me. Until I get to know someone pretty good or alot, then I get more comfortable and am more talkative. but heres the story, I used to have a best friend and we would do everything and go hang out with a bunch of people! but were not friends anymore, because she was into drugs and would get me into trouble, and treated me like shit, so I dropped her. I had another best friend, and we eventually kinda stoppped being friends, but we hang out occasionally and still talk. I had a good best guy friend but he's being dumb and everytime I try texting him and saying hi, he just doesnt text back and doesnt seem to care anymore. And yea, all I hang out with is my boyfriend, just me and him, or with his friends, which are guys. I need girl time too! but I have trouble making girl friends. I'm graduated and the girls I would hang out with in high school all get back together and put pics on facebook, but it makes me feel like, they dont even want to call me up and be like, Hey! we are all in town and getting back together! you should come! but no! And I took the year off from college, I should be a freshman, but I really hated school, and homework, and stressing, so I just wanted to relax, find a job, and just do my own thing. So during my free time, ive moved out and got my own apartment, I've gone to a few parties and met some people, but none that I have become best friends with, except this one girl, we've hung out and one day we were acting like we were best friends but then eventually we stopped talking, and once in awhile we talk, but I am always the one to text her or the person or say, lets hang out! no one ever says we should hang out! I feel like if I keep asking they will get annoyed with me and just not text me back. so I just pull back, and just wait to see if they they text me...but they never do! I dont know what to do..no one seems to care, except my boyfriend! I am fun, and a friendly person, but is that not enough?? Cuz the people I have hung out with have seen that side of me but yet they still make it seem like im not good enough. so what should I do? keep texting "my supposed" friends and get nothing back? or wait till they text me but that doesnt go anywhere either. but also, now its making me afraid to go to college, because I dont want to end up with noo friends, and such. yea maybe college is different from high school, but people can still be the same. ): I feel like something is wrong with me, please help!
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU you're just different that's all I'm the same way and honestly I have the same problems but honestly all I can say is be yourself and let people know that you are you and there is no one else you can be if they don't like you it is because they aren't worth your time. My problem was I was always putting peoples happiness ahead of my own. Please don't make my mistakes. Update me if you want let me know how everything goes after awhile.
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I have this really good friend, we're both girls and in 9th grade and her little sister, a few grades lower, thinks we're also close friends. I like her and all but she's always inviting herself over and keeps asking when I say no or hang on or I don't know, and when she does come over she eats my food, bullies my brother and doesn't listen to my parents. She also argues with her sister when they're over and doesn't listen to us. I don't want to hurt her feelings because she's kinda my friend but what should I do?
i agrree with gossip girl but if you confront her try to give it to the girl as gently as possible if gental dnt work then go forcefull
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I just graduated high school and i lost ll my "friends." now all the friends i have live 4000 miles away. i feel alone alot and it puts me in depressions. What should i do.
well try to make new friends if you want i can be your friend online and i can help you get started...what part of the world are you in? inbox me at lillyensoto123@aol.com or on my facebook at facebook.com/lolabunny93
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