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A girl that is one of my best friends did something that I thought was pretty childish. Well about 5 months ago we went up to another town to help another one of our friends with her parents 50th anniversary party. We went up for the weekend to help prepare. Well during the weekend I became close to one of the girls; I'll call her "Gina" that was helping out. We ended up talking to each other the whole time and got along really well. I even asked for her email but then didnt get a chance to write it down. Anyways, during the time that me and Gina were getting along I could tell my friend was getting jealous. She kept saying that we were getting really "chummy". Well I hadnt seen this girl in 5 months because she lives 2 hours away.
So anyways, this weekend my best friend said she was having the friend over whose parents had the anniversary party. I thought it was just her invited. While today I phoned to say hi. I couldnt go over to visit because I had to work. In the background, I could hear talking. I asked who it was. My other friend (not my best friend) said it was Gina. I said "you never told me she was over"! Then my best friend got on the phone and lied. She said "yes I did", so she wouldnt look bad but I know she didnt. So now i'm quite upset. I know she lied because she didnt want me to know that Gina was over because she was jealous. Should i confront her?

this so called bff isnt your bff is she lies to you
i hope i helped!!

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I met this girl this year, and we quickly became best friends. We ate lunch together every day, saw eachother outside of school, and we had English together so we would always see eachother. Semester 2 began, and she started to eat lunch with the guy she liked and his friends, leaving me all alone. I found a new group of friends while she continued hanging out with her crush and his group of friends. I confronted her about it right after it started and we argued about it so much we didn't talk for 2 weeks. We made up, but things still aren't the same. She says its important that she gets the guy, but I always thought our friendship was more important. It's been a while now, and we still don't talk often (VERY rarely), never see eachother, and I don't know what's going on in her life anymore. I want our friendship back, but I don't want to fight about it again and have it be even worse. What can I do?

call her up and settel things with her give her the choice to have both the friendship between you and her and the boy she likes i feel like a guy shouldnt get in the way of a friendship bcuz you are always gonna be there for her when the guy(s) she is with or likes come into her life.
i hope i helped!!

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ok well i had a bestfriend that i did everything wiid..i spent lyk a week wiid her cuz of 4th of July she was tha only gurl that understud me..n`d everything..but my one friend told her i talked bout her n`d everything..i never did tho..alot my guys lyked her n`d made me a lil mad sometimes but thats it..i saw her at tha fair lyk everyday but never said nething to her..i lyk miss her alot hope u can help me*


Liz

see if u can call her or talk to her online and tell her u werent talking bout her
I hope i helped!
Juicy

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