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My best friend Rachel and I are in this thing at school where we help new students. A new girl came and she was really cool her name was Ashley. She always hangs out with Rachel now and Rachel always avoids me and now they are best friends and always exclude me in activites. Should I talk to Rachel? Ehh (link)
yeah you should definetly talk to her and tell her how you feel and ask he ro include you in the things they do. it might be hard but you should do it. i understand that she has a new friend but she shouldnt exclude you from everything they do even if ashley is her new bf. hope everything works out - -


when i am with my friends i am really outgoing because im like comfortable with them you know? and also im a huge flirt. ok so people tell me that i think im the sh*t and i think im so cool and pretty and all of the boys love me. but thats not the case. what should i do because this is causing me a lot of trouble. it really sucks that people think that of me. please help. thank you ♥ (link)
well maybe you should try to not be so flirty with everybody..and try not to be too self absorbed and i mean that in the nicest way.hope i helped - -


oh of my best guy friends likes me, and he has for a while. at first i didnt like him but now im starting to. but im afraid if we go out, then break up,that i'll lose one of my best friends. but im also afraid if i dont tell him i'll regret it. so my question is shold i tell him i like him or not?


plus i dont know if i really like him, or if im just really flattered that he likes me (link)
ok, well i think you should give it a try some of the best relationships are based as friends first and then escalate into something more. and if you just do nothing about it, its going to be more awkward than if u go out and then break up...not that you will and if you were friends for along time, you will prolly be going out for a while too..hope i helped


so lets call her summer.

me and summer have been friends for a couple months. but now summer is being mean and is really annoying and i just DONT like her anymore. the problem is i half to sit with her in health and i HATE it. shes really chubby and the boys tease her all of the time but she was mean before that. and im popular and she trys to fit in but shes not bcuz well shes MEAN. and now shes hitting on my boyfriend and its annoying. and shes extremely 2 faced and gossips all of the time. and im sick of it. so how do i tell her i dont want to be her friend? silent treatment? i rate high. (link)
well you could give the silent treatmeant but if you complain that shes mean you kind of are being mean too. so i would put it gently like just casually stop hanging out with her dont call her back and stuff hopefully she will get the hint or if shes really really bad and annoying just do to her what shes doing to you if she has a boyfriend hit on him or something like that get even lol
hope i helped* michelle


It feels like me and my friend are getting farther apart... we are in 10th grade and we met when we were in 4th... we became like best friends in like around 8th... idk... she has been hanging out with diff ppl... her boyfriends friends and these older ppl... they smoke and drink and such... she wanted me to hang with her and them but i'm not like that... i use to drink and i have tried smoking but its w/e... her mom let's her go out with them and such... im scared one day something is going to happen... like she will get hurt and i didn't do anything to help her... like all if em or most of em drive and i'm scared that she will get into a car accident and i didn't tell her anything... she told me for her boyfriends b-day present she was going to give him her virginity... she asked me and i told her idk cause im waiting till i get married and such... but i just need to knw what to do... honest please... none of that "just talk to her crap"... no offense but i've heard of that and tried but i have gotten no luck... i love her to death but idk what to do...

~Please help~ (link)
if she wont listen to you i know its hard but you're going to have to tell an adult. its the mature thing to do and if you're really scared for her safety..its the only way to go. i hope i helped and i hope your friend makes wise choices.

michelle


my best friend has done "things" with a guy that i never thought she would do i mean shes only 14 and i have known her for about 8 years and she has never done anyhting like this before...i know its like none of my buisness to what she does but i just dont know what to say to her or what to think of her anymore...what do i do??? (link)
tell her how you feel about her seeing this guy..and maybe you could even talk to the guy it depends on how serious it is and what "things" she is going with this guy..if its sex i would just tell her to use protection if she wont listen to u
hope i helped *


sorry i didnt no what this went under, so i put it under friendship.

anyways, im going to my friends sleepover tonight and if i stay up most of the night/all night then i get a headache, but the thing is, i think everyone is going 2 stay up all night and i dont want to be the only one asleep, while everone is having fun.

has anyone got anything i could do to help me not get headaches??

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you could get sugar high..lol take a couple asprins before it starts to get kinda late like 11 or something..depending on what time the headaches ususally start hope i helped *




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