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is there any way to get rid of an annoying friend?

Slowly distance yourself.
Hang out with your 'annoying friend' a bit less and spend more time with your other friends.
If she asks you why you arent hanging out as much, then be honest and maybe she will change her ways.
-parkeranne

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I have never been made fun of in my entire life. I am pretty popular, and am I what I would consider very nice. Well, recently, this girl, Alyise, decided it would be funny if she sort of made fun of me. I am shocked and rather pissed, since this is the 1st time I have gotten like jabbed at. It's not like I want to be friends with her, but I would really like her to stop. I don't want to look bitchy, or super sensitive, which I am, but don't really show it all the time. I don't know why she would do this, since I have never really talked to her or anything. What should I do?

Well generally there is always one person who is mean to you even if you don't do anything.
They are probably just jealous.
Don't let it get to you.
But if things do get worse,
kill with kindness =]

-parkeranne

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I know I'll get scolded for what I'm about to ask..
But..
15/f..
I met a guy online. Let's call him S. Now, S is a nice guy. And I've made 1000000000000000 % sure that he's not some 76 year old pedophile masturbating to pictures of young girls. Trust me, he's not.

Now..I've known him for a year. And he's 3 and a half years older than me. He lives on this continent (U.S) but way, WAY up north in another country (get ittt? :)) Anyways...We've been communicating on and off for a year and stuff..and he always asks me for pictures. And I give him pictures. And he asks for more...and..uhm okay..here're more pictures. And of course..I don't ask him for pictures. It would be too awkward. I only ask him once in a while. But he says things like "You have me curious..I wanna see if your pictures are bad." And he just teases me on and off...and OBVIOUSLY ASKS for bad pictures. I never send them to him. WTF? Why would I do that? And whenever I don't send him some, he gets mad and pissed.
I don't know what to do. He creeps me out. But I can't block him because I [usually] like talking to him. Help? =/

hmm..
Well if he's asking for inappropriate pictures and making you uncomfortable then the best thing to do, would be to block him.
I know you may enjoy talking to him and it's hard but it's just the best thing to do.
If he was a nice guy and really worth your time then he wouldn't be asking you for dirty pictures.
But if you aren't going to block him then the next time he ask you for 'pictures' just simply say no and tell him you aren’t the kind of person who does things like that. If he gets pissed who cares, he can get over it =] haha

-parker anne

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