I'm neonfizz, a grade eight girl fron Canada. I like sports! Isn't that special;). Anyways, my friends say I'm good at giving advice...so, here I am! I can relate to a lot of problems so don't hesitate to ask.
E-mail: canadian_girl1867@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: Crazed Elephant
Age: 13
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Member Since: October 17, 2003
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I always wanna hang out with people. But when we come over to my house I dont know what to do. Do you have any suggestions for ideas of stuff to do. We always end up really bored!! I have cable but thats not a very fun thing to do when you have ppl over. any ideas would help!!! thnx (link)
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My friends and I do lots of stuff when we're bored. Sometimes, we'll just sit around and talk or read magazines and make fun of celebrities in them. Other times, we end up doing chores because our parents say that 'soandso has been over enough that she' not a guest anymore, you can do laundry while she's here'. It always happens to me and my friends no matter whose house we go to. We're always together. Anyways, sometimes we go to the park and talk out there, other times we go to store or to get icecream and stuff. The mall is always fun. You don't need money, most of the fun is just trying on ugly clothes or clothes we would never wear (we tried on Duff Stuff once...it was soo hilarious).
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I hang out with a few of my friends, but theres this one girl that follows us everywere How do we get rid of her??I dont want to tell her anything though Im just not good with feelings!!! (link)
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Well, I had this situation awhile ago. What I did was acted reluctant to do stuff with her and did more stuff with other people. It took her awhile but she got the point.
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Well, when I was in the 5th and 6th grade I went to a middle school in my hometown, but I wasn't enjoying it at all their besides the fact that my friends were there. Everybody else there was stuck up and they did their best to try to humiliate people.
Since I wasn't enjoying the schools in my hometown, when it was time for seventh grade I decided to transfer schools and I got in a big fight with one of my friends about this. But eventually we made up and everything was fine. The point is though, that i felt like my friends and I were growing apart and it was only my first year in this school. Now I'm in eighth grade and I'm still going to the same school I transferred to but I kind of promised my friends from my hometown that I would go to high school where they are going because I seriously thought that's what i wanted. But now I don't becasue something bad happened with me and one of the "popular" girls of the cshool in my hometown and I don't want to go back (not because I'm scared but becasue I will probably do something stupid like punch her out) even though I dont seem like a tough girl. Either that, or I wont be able to focus in school anymore.
What should I do?
I want to go because I want to see my friends again and I DON'T want to let them down.
But then again, I really don't want to go because the people there are stuck up jerks who only care about themselves. I don't care what they think about me but I just can't stand being around people like them. Plus, there is more smoking adn people who get high at the school where my friends go to and I'm totally against that.
Also, how can I break the news to my friends that I may not end up going to the same school as them in high school?
I'm so confused...
What should I do???
Thanks for taking your time to read this long letter.
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I think you should just break it to them slowly, give your old friends hints you might not end up going to their high school then one day just tell them. They may be mad but tell them that you've got attached to yuor school and just don't want to leave. If they're good friends, they won't be mad and they'll find as much time as possible to hang out with you.
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how can i convince my friends to help me move? should i offer food? entertainment? a "i'll help you move" coupon? when's a good time to ask this sort of thing? i'm trying to borrow their trucks too, so i need to do some major sucking up here :) (link)
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Tell them that after you've moved into yuor new place, you'll invite them over for pizza and take them soemwhere. You could also give tem chocolate after they help. Those things normally work. With the trucks, you might need to do more...try promising to pay for gas and shake with them you'll pay if any damage is caused.
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What's a good way to meet new people? (link)
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Well, don't just go up to people and say 'Hi, I'm ___ but you can call me ___" A girl did that to be once. I thought she was insane. Just start talking to people, get to know them and once you know them, ask them to do something with you. Don't be over friendly. That's my main piece of advice.
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I moved away from to go to college, but most of my friends stayed in our hometown to either take community college courses or just slack off and not do much of anything. Now it seems like every weekend they guilt me about not coming home. I can come home some weekends, yeah, but honestly I'm making some new friends here that I like to party with too and don't really want to go home more than once a month. My high school friends are just like, "But it's so-and-so's annual such-and-such party! You've never missed this! are you too good for us now or something?"
Am I a bad person for neglecting my old friends? Should I make more of an effort to go home and salvage these relationships? I want to stay friends, but sometimes I wish phonecalls were enough. (link)
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Life goes on. I'm only in grade eight but one of my close friends is now going to a different school in order to take fine arts. We don't see each other much but wen we do, everyone's always happy to see her and no one complains to her about never seeing us being busy with new friends. Your friends should be glad that you're able and willing to come home once a month and shouldn't waste their time with you guilting you. Tell them that.
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