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Right now in my life, I cant trust anyone and it feels as if there are so many conspiracies going on behind my back. Like everyone in the world is against me and its just sooo frustrating. I just dont know what to do. Can anyone help? (link)
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why cant you trust anyone?? you should find someone that you deffenetly can trust.. like maybe someone that you totally dont know.. and talk to them! i know people say like dont talk to people about your problems that you dont know well.. but they can care the most and if they dont no you they can help you.. its kind of like this advice thing!! or call one of those advice line things and talk to someone on that.. i.m me if u need anything jilliix3
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Since September, I have been friends with a girl, we are both 13. I really like her but I am very worried about her. Before she came to our school, her Step-Father, she hasn't seen her biological father in 10 years, threw her, her Mother and her sister out of their house and they had to move back here.
Since then, she has been cutting her wrists and talking about how she wants to kill herself. Recently, she has started taking paracetemol everyday because she says that she gets headaches and feels ill if she doesn't have any. She used to smoke and I know she still has cigarettes at her home in case she needs them, I'm worried she might start again.
She hates her Mother and yesterday she told me that her Mother is moving to another city and leaving her and her sister, who is 14, behind. I can't tell anyone because if I do, my friend will be put in care and she will never forgive me. No one else knows about all this except me and I am so worried about her.
I don't know what I can do to help her, I am going through a difficult situation myself and I'm so wrapped with it that I don't know how to cope with my friend as well. I have tried talking to her and telling her to get help but she wont and there is no way I can make her. I don't know what to do, I can't tell anyone and she wont get help. I'm so scared that one day she really will kill herself, she's threatened to so many times. What should I do? (link)
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usually when someone tells you and only you that they are going to kill them selves they want you to get them help!! so i think you should go ahaid and get her some help i think she might get mad at first but she will see how much it helped.. and the whole moveing i think you should ask your mom or dad if by any chance they could stay with you.. or look up on the internet foster homes and see if there are any near you because in my town i know of a couple and you could ask if she could go there or stay with you. you really need to do something because if she does kill herself you will never forgive yourself for not saying anything to anyone
i.m me if u need anything jilliix3
xOx jiLl
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Well, My friend and i were just in a fight and recently we just made up. I still feel I don't trust him and that I kinda don't want to be friends anymore. He ALWAYS hurts the one he loves the most and then regrets it. He has done it to me way to many time and it has gone to far. Should I end the friendship because I don't want to get hurt again or should i keep with the frienship. I kinda feel like I am being used for advice, Help, support, and love and I know that is the meaning of the friendship but he expresses it in a different way... I know I said to him that I never wanted anything to come between us and never to have brake a relationship and I have always been the one keeping the friends together.. Should I stay friends or Not?? (link)
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just maybe tell him you need a break or dont be best friends any more just be friends not to close.. maybe that will work but i wouldnt end the friendship over that id just take a break from each other for a while xOx jiLl
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I have 2 bestfriends that are guys and I told one of them that i liked him(which i now regret) lets call him john ok well now he is ignoring me and i told him i didnt want him too but he is.and my other bestfriend lets call him dave me and him have a past well dave and john are really close they tell each other everything and now that i like john he feels odd and i feel horrible bout this should i tell dave or just let things go with them... thank on adv. (link)
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well if u can trust that dave wont tell john then yeh.. but if dave will tell him everything you talked about then know because then maybe john will get dave to hate you to.. then down the drain that goes.. maybe john liked you and hes to imbarraresed to tell you xOx jiLl
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i have this friend and she wants to kill her self bc she thinks she doesnt deserve to be in this world and she is like always tellin me and her other friends that she is gonna kill herself and everytime she goes in a room she looks for sharp stuff to kill her self with and i get freaked out.. so if you have any advise plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me i need help! me and her other friends are tryin to make her eat, not kill her self, think positive but nothing is workin plz help (link)
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deffenetly go tell an adult asap.. and help her and ask her why she wants to do this!! and i dont understand thats eatting thing but oh well umm soo yeh jus go tell an adult that will get ur friend help xOx jiLl
well what IIIIII would do is deff tell my mom.. i have a great relationship with her!!!!!!! or i would tell an adult that im close with i dont know who that would be but i would deffenetly tell my mom!! i.m me jilliix3
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My "friend" not too many people like,and so sometimes its embarasing to be around her.Shes not a geek or something like that.Shes just annoying,rude and imatture.She always is using me on our homework to.I dont want to be her frined any more and ive told her how rude shes being,and she just comes up with lame comebacks.Shes not getting the hint,and shes obsessed with me.How do i get rid of her,or at least get her to back off without hurting her? (link)
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tell her that you dont want her to use you on your hw!! and just maybe ignore her or something i know that sounds mean but it usually works or tell her that you dont want her to use you like that and that she needs to change or your not friends any more!! xOx jiLl
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Okay i have this friend named mary, she is one of the popular people and she is so nice, but all my other friend think she is a hoe..but she is not...they say i will turn just liek her is we start being best friends? What should i do? HELP PLZ!
Ashley (link)
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well if shes not a hoe then shes not haha umm they are just jelious that they cant be her and they are probably jelious that you are getting to be her friend xOx jiLl
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Theres this girl whos my age and stuff. I'm 14/f. And my best friends grandmother just died today so she wasn't in school, and this girl actually told people she was glad her gram died. and I FLIPPED. One of her friends was like, you shouldn't flip out, it's not like it's your grandmother. & I'm like dude wtf I know, but she's my best friend, its not like I'm just going to let her say that. I'm doing the right thing, right? I'm not going to tell my best friend what happened because I don't want to get her upset. But, yeah. Thanks (link)
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well that happens when people die they keep the sadness inside of them and they act like it doesnt matter!! or maybe her grandmother was a very mean woman and was cruel.. give her time and be there for her!! umm i hope i helped xOx jiLl
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