I've been through pretty much everything u can go through in 15 years: death, love, loss, betrayel, attampted scuicide, stupid attention ideas, dissapointment, led on, false accusations... ect. All these things (and more) are what make me want to be here. I have grown soo much since i went through all of this. I've learned how to deal with things in a rational and finalizing way. So I came here to help anyone who needs help with anything. I have always givin advice to people, started off with ym parrents when i was 9. If anyone needs any advice whatsoever... u know where to find me!
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Age: 15
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Member Since: August 10, 2004
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Just for the info, I'm the shyest girl in the grade. Okay well I'm friends with this girl and she has a tendency to brag...a LOT. Okay, she is not very popular but she is the only one I can hang out with because I can't get to the next "group" in popularity levels. Then I made friends with this popular girl but I don't know how to approach her and talk to her at school, they all seem in one tight group. So basically I need to make new friends, but I'm supershy and I have a big fear of being rejected. (link)
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first off, the only person that can reject you is you. I'm guessing your in middle school. could be wrong. u have to realize that the "popular" girls are no different than you other than the fact they they have more self confidance. U have to realize there is nothing wrong with being shy, but if it is really bothering you, then here's what u do. take the friends u have and.... hang out with them. the key to making friends is not to try to make them like you. true friends like you for who u are. if u are having trouble approaching people, then dont approach, just talk. nothing fancy. talk about anything (school, GUYS, what u do after school. just be yourself and dont try too hard. people like confidance, and the best way to gain it is to be comfortable with who u are and not tryy to be somthing ur not. if you are trying to get popular, then u are making friends for the wrong reason. popularity gets you nowhere...
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