I have a friend who is mad at me. I wont say why but she says she will never talk to me again. I tried to work it out but she wont listen to me. WHat should I do?
This question may be a little difficult to answer for you as I don't know what you did to make your friend angry but I will try. You say you have tried to work it out. It sounds to me that you have really hurt your friends feelings. Give her a little time to stew and mend her hurt feelings. After that maybe there is something you can do for her that would show her how much you value her friendship. If you were friends for a while then you can probably find something that would be meaningful to her. Be patient. These things take time.
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I have been best freinds with this girl since 4th grade and now that I am going into high school I don't want to be best freinds with her. I want a new best freind and meet new people. I still want to be freinds with her, just not as close. She doesn't have many close friends and me leaving her would be the end of the world for her. Is this mean of me? Should I stay BFs with her?
I don't quite understand why you would want to stop being her best friends. When I was in highschool I had 3 best friends! You can remain friends with her and still meet new friends as well. Besides, bringing a few new people into your little group could help to open her world a little too. So keep your friend and make new ones. The more the merrier!
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My best friend in the world...let's call her 'little-bit',is my rock!She herself is great at giving advice,and always knows just what to say to make a person feel better. I don't think I could make it through without her.(yes,she's that good) The problem is that she is stuck in a dead end job,in a dead end town. She wants to be a therapist of some sort so she can help people for a living. I know that she could save lives with her sweetness. What steps can she take to achieve this goal. I am most definatly willing to help anyway I can, and want her to succeed in this dream! She feels like 'good' things don't happen for her. You know money situations stop so many dreams in their tracks and I want to help make 'this' happen! What can I do? Thanks so much
Congrats on having such a good friend! Just submitting this question shows you have your friends best interest at heart and you are lucky to have each other. The first thing you can do is encourage your friend in her endeavors( it sounds like you are already doing this) It is difficult to achieve certain dreams when money and other resources are limited, but not entirely impossible. If your certain this is something she really wants perhaps you could do a little research for her. Fimd our if there are any educational grants she may qualify for or any programs in your area that help with colege education for low income people. Other than that just continue being there for your friend. Good friends are hard to find in this day and age. Just encouraging her could give her the confidence she needs to achieve her goals
P.S. Thanks P.
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