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Q: Okay so i have 2 friends who live down the street from me, their names are eva and gabby, and they arent friends with eachother., evas mom lives here, but her dad lives in another town, and this summer, she decided she was gonna live there with him, and go to school in that town, so when she would come back home for a couple days each month this summer, i would hangout with her each day that she'd be here. Now my other friend, Gabby shes been home the whole summer, hanging out with neighborhood kids, and stuff, but we've only hungout maybe 6 times the whole summer, i dont know; the problem is, gabby keeps asking me to hangout before school starts [3 days] and i just feel like, i dont really feel like hanging out with her, and i dont know why? so i make up excuses not to, and the thing -i dont get is, if eva comes back to town, im gonna want to hangout with her. so i dont understand why i wanna hangout with eva, but not gabby? is there any reasons you guys think it could be?
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Well you might be nervous that if you hang out with gabby, then you might like her as a friend, and then eva might not like it. or you might be afraid you might without knowing replace eva for gabby.
if i were you i would give gabby a chance, but i would be careful that i am treating both friends equally. you never know gabby might be pretty fun to hang out with
hope i helped :]
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Q: 17.f
theres this kid that i have liked for a very long time. well at the beginning of the year he found otu i liked him, and he said the most hurtful thing about me, in front of my 2 bestfriends. now they obviously told me. and when they did i confronted him and i was flipping out. now me and him have been friends for a very long time. and i dont want to loose him as a friend. but what he said was extremely hurtful and made me feel like i was nothing. well the day after he told me how sorry he was and that if he didnt mean it then he wouldn't have said it. so i guess he meant what he said. and that made me seriously cry for about a week, because it hurt so much. I talk to him now, with him knowing i like him. and he's all cool with that we are jut friends. i just dont know if i did the right thing by talking to him again. Because he hurt me so bad and made me feel ugly, feel like a nothing and i could never be pretty. i guess im just wondering if by me maknig the choice of talking to him again was the right choice?
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Well it kind of depends on your guys relationship. If it really was important to you and if you like being his friend, and he apologized you made the right choice. Even though he did hurt your feelings. But sometimes people can be so mad or confused it makes them feel clear and some how better by saying something mean. Which is of course a HUGE mistake. But then when they have some time to think about your guys relationship and that he cares about you as a friend of course he should feel regret and alot of guilt. And sometimes a person needs a second chance. Just make sure he is treating you right. And remember that we all have made mistakes and said some stuff we dont mean and later regret. So remember those words he said to you were just probably slipped out of anger but not the truth. But it is your decision.
hope i helped :]
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Q: SO I like this new guy.
OVER THE OLD ONE YAYE !
And he use to like me too i could kind of tell, but he never told me, and i wanted to hear from him, not his friends.
Alright and so the first week of summer i told
him that i like him and asked him if i still should and hes like well dangit i use to like
you too but i like this other girl. So then that
kind of made us stop talking for a while cause i was jealous cause she is a lot prettier than me.
so then he started talking to me around the 4th of july and i was happy and he asked me who i liked and i said i kind of like you still. and then on we started talking again and i was happy.
then he wasnt sure if he liked me but on the 4th of july he went to kiss me and i didnt know, so we didnt. then he told my friend that he doesnt know if he likes me cause he has been trying so hard forever to get over his old girlfriend and he didnt want to get annoyed of me if we went out because all the other girls after her just didnt sit right. soooooo then we stopped talking again. and then today he called me.
and i dont know. i
just want him to like me again. and yeah !!
WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
HOW CAN I GET HIM TO LIKE ME AGAIN?
AND WHY DO WE STOP TALKING ?
WAHHHHHHHHHHh
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Just hang in there, its okay to still really like him, but dont just wait for him.
The reason why you guys might be stop talking might be because its awkward, or you guys just might need some time to think.
i hope everything works out. :]
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Q: what does it mean when you avoid someone whos moving and you avoided them for a while because you were really sad that she moved and you gave her a gbye and a sorry letter why were u ignoring her and when you cried front of them she cheered you up but it didnt work so she left and after those happening doensnt respond IMs and refused to talk to you?
btw she already moved but she still refused to talk to me why is that?
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Maybe she just needs some time, and is a little stressed out, with the move, having to leave her friends, having to start all over again, being new. It could be a little difficult time for her. Just give her some time to adjust. :]
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Q: okay last month my friend was moving soon and i was hurt so i avoided her and she asked me why i was avoiding her and stuff but i said"im not" and after that we slowly stopped talking, and then in before the last day of school i gave her gbye/apology letter and the last day of school i broke down and cried front of her and she cheered me up but i was still crying so it didnt work and after that she left and said"im gonna go so dont cry anymore" and she went to her friend and we didnt talk after all i try iming her but she didnt respond me and now we havent talk since the last day of school which was last month and i dont know if we still gonna talk to eachother and im really sad and regret what i did do you think we're still friends? and it feels like she doesnt wanna talk to me since i avoided her before i dont know what should i do anymore what do you guys think? sorry its too long...= /
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i have a friend that had almost the same thing happen.
i think that maybe you should just give her some time. But dont just give up. She might be dealing with stress and all with the move and leaving her friends and all.
I think that you should give her a email or a letter, or im or something telling her how you feel, and that you want to still be friends.
hope i helped :]
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Q: My best friends mom say no to have a sleepover everytime I go to her house and that she will miss her too much. But might not say no if she knows about it before. Evertime I ask my mom to have a sleepover she always says YES! We really want to have a sleepover. How could my friend convince her mom to sleepover my house.
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well if it really is really worried about missing your bff thing which might not really be it, then tell your bff to talk to her mother because its not like when she gets older and has her own house the mother will sleepover their.
But maybe you could tell your friend to tell their mom that they will call to say goodnight at a certain time.
another thing you could do is show the mom you are responsible and mature. some mothers are uneasy, my mom is with my bff but i just have to show her how fun and trusting my friend is, and would never make me do something i dont feel comfortable doing etc.
i hope i helped :]
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Q: Long story short, I used to be best friends with this guy. (he's 16, i'm 16/f) Anyway, this year stuff's been rocky and we both have been trying to get back to the friendship we used to know, it's not working, it's been about 6 months. I think, at least on my part, I can't remember how I was ever his friend 'normally', like without being so close, but that's how I need to be now. I can't expect to hang out with him all the time, and call him/him call me, etc. How can I get myself used to being okay with being just normal friends? And also..how can I treat him like a normal friend?
(If this makes no sense, what I'm trying to say is I still see him as a really good friend of mine, though he doesn't for me. he's willing to be my friend as long as i treat him as a 'normal' friend as he says. anyone, HELP!)
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just be yourself, and hang out. if you guys were best friends then he must like your personaility. Have fun, and just act like it was in old times. or you could try to start fresh.
Ask him what he would like to do.
Just have fun
hope i helped :]
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Q: REALLY LONG, AND IM SORRY..
but i had to tell the whole story so you would understand it.
16/f
At the end of my freshman year I became friends with this girl Katelyn. Me and Katelyn became really close, and she was my BEST friend. We Spent everyday in the summer together!!
I always had a boyfriend, Katelyn never had a real relationship.
So during the summer I was dating a kid name Bradley. He was great, and he always took me and Katelyn to the movies(of course katelyn paid her way) But I wasnt allowed to go, so i had to sneek. And I ALWAYS thought she liked that i took her along.
So comes 10th grade and we start out close, best friends, nothing is wrong. Then I start dating Marcus, I REALLY Liked Marcus, so I didnt sneek to the movies or anything with him. So I spent everyday with him(bad move, i know) So me and Katelyn start to loose our closeness. (i;m still with Marcus) So come Feb. we get into a BIG fight. Mainly bc i would sit with her at lunch, but she wouldnt say one word to me the whole time.(bc she got other friends, which are the fakest people in my school.) So we got into a fight.
Now I was in class with her old best friend. (Long story sort, Betty was a hoe our freshman year and said some guy raped her, when he really didnt. And it was at katelyn's party. ) So Im in calss with her ALL year. So when me and katelyn get into a fight, i start talking to Betty more. And I start saying things about Katelyn that at the time i would thing to myself and say "shouldnt say that" but Katelyn was my main friend, and I didnt have one after her. And I wanted a friend sooo bad. So i would talk about Katelyn behind her back(fake i know)
But now she wants to be friends again. I want to so baly bc i miss her soo much. She was like a sister to me. But i dont want to go back to school and people think Im fake and all bc of the things I said this/last year.
What should I do? Be friends with her again and not care what people say or think bc i have my best friend back.
Or not be friends with her bc of the things I said??
Please help me!.. =[
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well it sounds that you guys were close, and i think that you should be friends with her again, cause the bad talk would stop, but if you chose to not be her friend, you might lose her for good. And anyways there might not even be any gossip or people calling you a fake, cause they shouldnt be talking. Everyone gets in arguments with there friends and sometimes we just say things, which is wrong, but it just happens. And it doesnt really matter what other people say its better to be happy with your friend then be miserable without one.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: alrightt
so tomorrow im suppose to go downtown chicago
with some of my friends
and im 14
and i live like 30 or 45 min rom it?
and my mom told me i have to ask my dad if i can go
and i have been bugging them all week, well my mom
cause she gives in more then my dad
and i have a feeling he is gonna say no
and yeah im 14 blahblahblah im gonna get rapped
and i know theres gangs and stuffy like that
but really if i didnt think i wasnt gonna be safe i really wouldnt ask
and we are gonna go on a train
how can i get my parents to let me go?
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well you have to show them that you are responisible and mature. So maybe make a list, or a paragraph why you should go and you might have to hear out your parents rules if you would be able to go. like tell them that you or your friends have a cell or maybe you can ask to borrow your parents in case of emergancy, and tell them how you guys are going to stick together.
good luck
hope i helped:]
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Q: My best friend told me she's been cutting herself, and her excuses never really are reasonable to me. I mean I used to cut before she did, and she noticed and told me to stop.
But the she admitted she had been a lot lately.
I don't understand because it seems like she has everything, she has amazing parents who are still together, her family is close, she has animals, clothes, a boyfriend, I dont understand why she couldnt be happy.
I'm not trying to compare our issues, it just her excuses to meare like .. "my parents like...ugh they are weird around boys, they embarss me around my boyfriend" and I'm like so, my mom does tha ttoo, but it doesnt mean go hurt yourself.
Its just really starting to worry me, because i dont want to tell on her, and DONT tell me to tell her mom. But I want her to stop, because shes beautiful, and I envy her so much.
But I dont know how to help her>
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well i no it might be difficult but you should tell her to stop and do whatever you can to help her. She helped you when you were cutting, and now its your turn, she might not admitt it but she really needs help. Yes she might be a bit annoyed at you if you tell her to stop or tell her mom but if you think about it you are doing her a favor. And wondering why she is cutting, maybe she is stressing out and has a diffrent way of dealing with it.
hope i helped :]
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bio
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hi, my name is emily i am 14 years old and in 8th grade
i love hanging out with my friends,good with little kids, shopping,boys, cheerleading, dancing, music, fashion, eating haha, and giving advice :]
I also really enjoy going to my beach house, especially when i bring my 3 bffs.
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Gender: Female Age: 13 Member Since: July 11, 2007 Answers: 105 Last Update: August 19, 2008 Visitors: 7600
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