Hey Everyone!
Megan here, but my friends call me Megz and you can too. I love to help people, I plan to make it my profession one day. I'd like to be either a pediatric nurse, Pediatrition, or Pediatric Oncologist. Depending on what happens on my life. I think the biggest part of my life is my faith in Jesus Christ, without him I would be nothing. Everything I do is in glory to him. The next biggest thing has to be my little brothers. They are my favorite two boys in the world, even though we don't always get along I love them more than anyone. My friends are important to me too, they are my family as well. I live in Iowa, I don't mind it too much, though I would love to live in the south. I would love to have a big old house in Virginia not far from the ocean. One of my passions is theatre, another is dancing. I love to dance I cannot go a day without it. It's just on of those things. I love to make new friends so you can IM me if you want, or email me or drop a note in my inbox. Hope to hear from you! Much Love and Peace out
E-mail: megz2009@hotmail.com
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Location: Carlisle, Iowa
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Age: 14
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okay this guy send me an e-mail saying this.........
hey i want to ask u somthing but im not sure yet if i should ask u it.............
what does he want from me goshh i hate whenever he does this because it makes me wonder alot and its really bugging me and do you have any ideas what he
probably wants??? because i really want to know!!!.
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Lauren,
From what I know, I bet that this guy has you exactly where he wants you. It sounds to me like you have yourself an admirer. He wants to make you wonder, he likes the attention it gets him from you ;). I think he wants to ask you out. When you find out will you let me know if I am right?? Megz2009
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Well, my problem is that my friends and a few other classmates are hurting my feelings is all... You see, (from what I have heard. Stupid people...grr.) I'm the "top" (riiiight.) in my class. My IOWA test result from last year was only an 84 percentile and it jumped to a 96 this year. I also have good grades and I get good test results. But before this guy, Robert, was the best, so they're not very used to me. So, they're jealous. I could tell because they say scathing remarks to me, scowling, etc.
My friends are doing this too. Ashley, when she sees I have a higher score than her, does this and talks back if I write something she thinks she doesn't like. (ex."You have a big ego!" She got that when my teacher was joking when Ashley wrote my name BIG on our project.Then a few weeks later, "You have a small head!" The size of my head mind you. But I say nothng yet again!But now I think, 'You're a wakling oxymoron. That
comment just contridicts the other cuz you said I have
a big head and ego, no you say I have a SMALL head...?) I'm not used to this because they never did this to me before...
My bestfriend Elise also is dong stuff like this sometimes worse. My mom thinks she won't be a very good friend in the future. Why? Because in 3rd grade I was in this program called bungalow for kids who have trouble reading. So she came up to me and said "We can't be friends, because you're in bungalow." So we broke up. I didn't have any friends except for her that time, so I was a loner. Elise, fortunately, had lots of friends like Melvi, Nathaniel, Ariel, Linda, Franz, Ryan, etc. My mom also was gone for some time to train for her work. So that continued to 4th grade and into the first weeks of 5th grade. All I really did was kick a ball alone to improve so I can play kickball. Then later we became friends again and have Melvi as a friend in 5th grade because Elise seemed sad and I came up to her and tried to cheer her up. But then, now she is reacting like this, so my mom
doesn't know if she'll be a good friend and that she seems to be spoiled.
Other classmates are doing similar- all the way back from the beginning of the year. So I decided to give them time. But they only seem to become more vicious.
I have this bad habit of keeping things bottled in. So when I explode is when I have this tight feeling in my chest- like my heart is being squeezed, and then I cry. This is unusual because I'm usually calm. So I try to write out my feelings and talking to my mom. This helps, but it won't stop them from continuing this.
I've already dropped big and VERY noticiable hints that I don't like the way they're behaving. But it seems that they forget and continue what they do before. Sometimes I think people think that some people are different and don't have feelings.. But we
do! We feel the same that they do, eat what they eat,drink how they drink, we LIVE. But I don't think they get this. It's like I'm an alien!
I had to deal with this from the beginning and I still am.
If my relationship between my friends won't last, then I don't mind being alone. Or I'll try to get new ones. And I'll be more determined to push myself to the limit and do my best acdemically and socially.
What should I do, anyway? (link)
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Dear future Ivy League student (lol)
I am sure they are just jealous of how well you are doing in school. They probably just feel a little bit insecure. Don't let them bother you, the fact that you are doing well in school is a GREAT thing. Whoever says doing bad in school is probably on the streets. If you don't do anything to make them feel stupid, like if you brag constantly about your grades(keep in mind a little pride is ok, just don't go overboard), or acting like you know it all, then you should be fine. Keep up the good work, I'm proud of you. Megz2009
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Well this all happened this week.
In my school we have tables that fit eight
people so all my friends that are close sit there.I've been in Lunch Detentions for the week but today,today i sit down like its nothing chilling wiht my homes and Taunya and Charmaine sit at another table.Confused i asked why there not sitting at our table and they dont answer me so i was like whats going on!!I go back to my table and ask Kayliegh she says because i called taunyas sister a shes mad and wont sit here.I get mad because i dont know whats going on and Taunyas mad at me so is Charmaine i try asking them but they wont talk to me.I ask Corina and she says "because your hanging out with Kayliegh"I havent known whats been going on and shes taking it out on me .Ive been known that when i get mad i hit people and wind up in iss not this time ive been kicking the bathrom stall doors.So i run in there and kick it and kick it and kick it so many times i lost count and started crying.I dont like it when people see me cry because its a sigh of weakness and im not the one to cry and all this but i cnat help it .Well we have passes so we cant stay to long at the bathroom(this is all happening at lunch)so i come out all red faced and still crying at yell at kayliegh "because of you shes not my friend anymore!!!"Still crying i know Charmaine says crap behind your back so i know there talking about me.Everyone i dont know are like whats wrong i always said nothing im fine lil as possible.I dont like the guidence constaler so i dont go to her.I ended up crying in class....
well its not about crying itd about crying but my friends tell me im nto mad at you and i say dont talk to me....
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To my confused and hurting friend,
I am so sorry that things are going so bad for you. I have a question. Is the Kayleigh girl your friend too? If so I think that you owe her an apology, if not you probably need to anyway. Explain to her what you said was out of anger and your sorry. That should, hopefully, take care of that. Now, I understand why you are confused, I am too :-). But I think the only thing you can do is calm yourself down and ask them what is going on. Don't get others involoved with this, It will just confuse yourself more. I am pretty sure it is only between you and Taunya and Charmaine. You should apologize to Taunya for calling her sister a bad name if you did. If not, say I didn't non accusingly, but say your sorry for the miscommunication. If she still does not listen then just swallow your pride and say you didn't mean it. Now what does Charmaine have against Kayleigh? You'd be best to figure that out too. If Kayleigh is your friend then stick up for her, tell C that you don't like it when people diss your friends and that if someone was talking bad about her you would stand up for her too. I don't feel like I have the whole story but i hope this helps. If you want you can write to my inbox, I would be more than willing to help you out more as you need it. Good Luck. Megz
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I have a group of friends at school that I have been hanging out with since Semptember. I have known one of them since last year. We all became very close very fast and I liked that. Lately, however, I have been feeling as if I am drifting father away from them. I don't want this. I want to be close to them again. They went up to one of my friend's cottage without and they spend a lot of time together without me. They have so many inside jokes. I feel really inferior. Does it sound like I am being paranoid? Should I talk to them about it or just leave it alone? How can I become closer with them agian?
Thanks, I will rate high for good answers. (link)
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To my hurting friend,
I am so sorry that you feel this way. I wish this wasn't true but this is happening to me too at the moment. I told my friends how I was feeling and asked them if I did anything to make them want to exclude me. But I didn't do that right away and got a little depressed about it. So do it as soon as you can, but don't be accusing or make a big deal about it. Calm and cool. Good Luck with your friends I hope everything goes back to normal. Megz
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I went to a new highschool this year and in the begining, it was wonderful. I made great friends, was doing well and was elected class preseident. Well, now it's march and things have fallen apart. I said some things i shouldn't have to my friends, without realizing it. I was just informed that most of my class thinks i'm a prep who thiniks she's better than everyone else. I don't know what to do.
for starters i'm not going to say anything mean about anyone because i know i deserver to be mean to right now. but i don't know how to apologize. could you give me some tips to get back on my feet? (link)
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Sweetie I feel that. I was new this year too, and because my dad owns a car dealership everyone here automatically thought that I was spoiled and stuck up. And that was before they got to know me...it is a small town and people seemed to know who I was before I stepped foot through the door. Thing is I am shy when you first meet me so I did give that impression. But after they got to know me that impression changed. I work for my spending money and drive a normal teen car. let them see the real you. Be nice to everybody and wear sweats every once in a while ;). Admit you made a mistake and you were wrong, but move on. Don't judge...ect ect. I hope this helped and if you need anymore ideas please let me know! Good Luck! Megz
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