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Ok I have a news flash for ya
I'm better than you.
It seems that in this politically correct society, no one wants to say they're better than the next guy.
They're just different.
Different must mean worse, cuz I'm better than those people too.
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~ihave a serious problem...my frien cuts herself horribly cuz she thinks her life sux. last time i saw her she had 5 cuts on her arm. They were so deep. 3 of them she blamed on her cat. I have a cat and it dosent scratch perfect distances away. they were like 2 inches long. I asked her y she does it and she says cuz her life sux. i said y does it sux? she said one reason is cuz her grampa has cancer. she admitted to 2 of them and she woodnt tell me wat she used.
~i cut myself cuz every since i was born i have lived in9different houses. also my biological dad abused my mom and i havent seen him since i was 1 and a half. i had a step dad but hes gone now. he has to go to counsilin cuz he had theartened to hit me 2 times. although he never did it scared me teribbly. one day my mom had told me if i heard screamin to dial 911. i did hear screamin and i let it go 4 bout 5 min. Then i called. jus as the cops walked in my step dad was pushin down my mom. he went to jail but go out. then my mom was in the hospital. i came home and i didnt kno where she was. some how i found out. i dont member. she had mal-noutrition and double namonia(sp). she cood of died and i was only 11/12 at the time. and if she did i didnt kno where i woodve gone. my biological father owes me over 60,000 dollars in child support.
~ do u have ne kinda idea of a way i cood kinda train myself to stop cuttin? PLZ HELP ME AND MY FRIEN!!!
I understand you and your friends have a tough life, but cutting is no way to solve it. Both of you need to get help ASAP. Try 1-800-SUICIDE (it deals with self-mutilation, not just suicide)It is a toll-free number, meaning it's free and WON'T show up on your phone bill. If you want to go that extra mile, admit yourself into a rehab clinic. It is a great way to learn other ways to cope and to deal with underlying problems. Also, you need to realize that what happened with your stepdad & mom is not your fault, you did the right thing. As much as you'd like to help yourself, the only thing you can do is seek professional help for you & your friend.
ok well i just got an inground pool done at my house and i do like having my friends come over and swim in it...but one day my friends just came over and expected me to ask them to come in it...then when they're done they just get out and leave and go to someone elses house to hang out..does this mean they're just using me and they're not REALLY my friends?
Yes, they are using you. Tell them they can't always use your pool; you don't need friends like that
my friend is upsessed with my cousin and im like really upsessed with her families friends son. and she gos to his bcuz her cousins best friends with him and he goes ova hers, wen i go to my cousins i always ask if she wants to come, she always brags a bout like noing him and the whole house thing,and i never brag about my cuz..sooo
SiGnEd--WUT SHOULD I DO IT BOTHERS ME??
tell her it bugs you.
hey i have this friend and i dont really like her and she annoys me. well she considers me her best friend and all and always wants to come over. i always make up some excuse so she doesnt. my mom doesnt like her either and doesnt want me to hang out with her. i mean that would be fine and all but we dont only go to school together we also have dance together which is EVERY day of the week. so i cant really get away from her. i dont want to hurt her feelings or make her mad at me (or her mom mad at me) cause than at dance it could be a problem. wat should i do ???
This girl obviously looks up to you, you should be flattered. I know that sometimes those tag-a-long friends can get REALLY ANNOYING, but the best thing to do is say that you don't really want to hang out outside of dance class because you have too much homework, you're grounded, etc. Eventually she'll get the hint. I don't usually tell people to lie, but if you talk to her about this, you're going to really hurt her feelings & embarress her. How would you feel if someone you really like told you to f*ck off or go away? Put yourself in her shoes, and handle the situation delicately.