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lets see im about 5*4 or 5*5 in hieght. I've played alot of sports, I like to sing, and I like to have fun. I've had my share of problems so i like to help others with thiers. Some situations are very similar to things ive gone through. I help out my friends all the time. So feel free to ask me about anything.
E-mail: gradof2007@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Busser at a Senior Living Place
Age: 16
AIM: bebgrlmary96
Yahoo: wuv1988@yahoo.com
MSN: gradof2007@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 22, 2004
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Ok so im sick of being a loser...i wanna go to parties and hang out with my friends but no ones havin any parties(at least theyre not invitin me) i just wanna have a fun summer and party and shit like that but ...yeah (link)
well if ur shy dont be... and if u try to be cool or something ur not... u wont fit in right... Just be u... and if people dont lik u for who you are... then screw um! ~ u dont need them ~ go out and meet new people make new friends and start your own parties! hope i helped *mare*


all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ?? (link)
just go along with him ~ if he is gay obviously he isnt ready to come out yet... but maybe hes not gay i got straight friends who act gay but are totaly straight! ~ so take his word for now but dont be surprised if in the future he says hes gay ~ *mare*


There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other. (link)
If you do meet... make sure u take a friend with you to meet him so he cant pull n e thing on you ... ya know? ALWAYS be safe...


ok well here's the thing i think my best friend likes my ex... and honestly i have to be straight up but i obvioulsy still have feelings for him and still really care about him but i kno my bestfriend likes him because she keeps talking about him and keeps saying how sweet he is and i kno the both of them flirt... and also if the both of them went out i would b really shocked and i guess upset.... but haha here's the other thing my ex's gf is kinda not into him that much and well i mean i dunno wut to do... sumbody help!!!! (link)
ok... well maybe talk to your X and tell him you still have feelings for him... maybe he still has feelings for you?... but if he dont or if you dont have strong enough feelings to wanna try it again with him... then why not let your friend have him..?... hook tha girl up!~!... I know it will seem wierd to you at first... but think of how happy they could be...and you could be the cause of that happiness :) **mare**


i have this friend who has really bad breath all the time and she talks really really close to ur face. i wanna tell her but she is the type that would take it way too seriously .. she wouldnt get mad but she would be very paranoid and upset. (link)
easy... whenever i have sum1 round me that has bad breath i take out some mint gum and i eat a piece then i act lik i almost forget to offer and i ask the person if theyd like some lol ~ it usually works ;-)~*mare*


i have alot of best friend problemz itz me again so many problemz jus trying to find a way to deal with em. well... im the person that has a little brother with a big temper n a dad that i think takes money away from the family to spend on himself n the one that everythingz breaking in her house etc. well my best friendz i love em all but... one uf em tlkz to me on the phon alot n sumtymez it seemz like im not good enough for her other friendz n stuff there are tymez where were like the bestest friendz ever but lately itz like that. n therez my other best friend that i literally onli talked to her once this summer n she tlked to the other person only that i had on the other line when i tlked to her n i keep trying to call her baq n she wont answer. n the other best friend i get really jelous of her n at first id only answer if she called me. but after i came baq from vacation ever since she hasnt called me... well i wuz scared cux she brags alot n thats y i get jelous well... i got advice from ppl on this thing n it gave me the corrage to tlk to her but now im calling her n she doesnt answer the phon ether like the best friend i wuz tlking about b4 this. wut do i do? i dont kno where to start with any of this except maybe the first best friend that i wuz tlking about n thats like a little tiny idea that if it doesnt work than thats it i have nothing else. help!! (link)
Go to their house and confront them face to face... cause this needs be be resolved. You dont deserve to be treated lik that at all. and remember your never "not good" enough...thats bullcrap... everyone is equal no matter what...hope this helped *mare*


i have a friend who is really pretty and really popular...she could practically get any guy she wants. Whenever i have a guy who in interested in me she goes and flirts with him and he ends up dumping me and going for her. What should i do to let my friend know that this hurts me badly? (link)
Confront her ~ ... and i mean what kind of true friend does that?... if my friend likes a guy i would never try to take him from her ~ id totaly be backing mah friend up by try n to get her and that guy together... But tell this friend the truth be right upfront with her. *mare*


i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee.. (link)
ask them whats going on ~ real friends dont just ditch you. maybe theres a reason for them disapearing on you... ~ *mare*


my friends r mad at me and i do not know what to do they say i need to shut the F*** up but i have not talked to them and my other friends go online as my best friends name and sends me rude messages what should i do (link)
talk it out... i mean oviously something bug n them ~ so why not ask what that is... solve the prob. by talking it out ~ with NICE words...and talk calmly like your serious and show them you care bout the friendship...

*mare*


one of my best friends wants to go out with the guy that i like and she knows i like him. what should i do? (link)
Talk to her about it. Be upfront with her, on how you feel. But trust me... no guy is worth loosing a friendship... specialy bestfriends. I liked a guy once and my friend liked him to... but she tried to get me with him... then one night she called me up and asked me if she could ask him out... omlordy i was lik mortified. But of corse being me i told her it was ok... but it really wasnt...next thing i know they are dating... she said she felt bad, and she ended up breaking up with him because it hurt me... we arent really friends anymore though... so really we lost a friendship... and both were w.out a boyfriend... we gained nothing...


i think im in love with my best friend... im a girl... lol n hez a guy. well ive known him since sixth grade... n now im going to 8th... n in 6th grade he had this dorky musroom haircut... n in 7th grade he cut his hair... n he looks reallii cute but usually hez not my type... i mean im in love with little ghetto boyz... n my best friend iz like more abrocombie... dont get me wrong i love abrocombie... i feel like my style is changing n i really dont know wut to do cuz he went out with my ex best friend in 6th grade... n i hated her when they went out becuz... we were fighting ova another guy b4 that... n my best friend dumpd my ex best friend... n im scared he wont like me... but im not even sure how i feel about him.

P.S. i love adri n matt like a fat kid loves kake!! (link)
Ive been told that best friends make the best couples... But listen make sure you really like this kid, before you try to take it up a level. Because if its really nothing big... then i wouldnt make a move. But if you feel like your really in love with this kid. Tell him. Because you could miss out on someting really special if you dont. If he dont feel the same way, then just stay friends. I have had a crush on mah best friend be4... for like a long time. But we always stayed friends. He had a crush on me one time but i had a bf then and i never knew he liked me like that. If me and him woulda just comunicated on the subject... who knows... we maybe would be datin right now.




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