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OK, the othere day I went to the doctors and the doctor told me this scale on puberty. 5 being you have gotten your period and stuff like that. Well, my friends mom told me mom my friend was a 5. And the other day we got in a fight and my friend was really frusterated. My friends mom told me, my friend, and another friend, you get really frusterated during your period. Do you think my friend got her period? PLese help! Oh yea, she has been in a really bad mood lately.

I got mine at 11 (2 days before my twelfth birthday to be exact). Some girls get it even younger.

So yes, she could have her period.

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My sweet 16 (which also happens 2 b my Golden birthday) is coming up soon! I really wanna have an awesome party this year 4 my bday, except I don't exactly have a cool house 2 party at. Could any1 give me any ideas that I could (hopefully) do @ home? (I'm also willing 2 take ideas that wouldn't b @ my house.)

Thx!

Amusement park.

Hawaiian luau (sp?). Hold a bonfire and provide grass skirts and leis.

Murder mystery party. THINK Clue the game. Give everyone a character, and inform the murderer who he/she must kill (use the cards to decide!) beforehand. You can be the host, Mr. Boddy (who is killed). Have your guests use clues to discover the murderer. My sister went to a party like this, and STILL remembers it as a favorite! Who doesnt love fun costumes, suspense and intrigue?

If you are a girl (Could not tell!), have a spa day with your closest friends. Buy home mani & pedicure kits, face masks, cucumbers,and anything else you can think of.

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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(

*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ

Tell her parents. Harsh, yes, but it might save her.

Bulimia is horrible. It ruins your teeth, your esophogus.... Not to mention malnutrition and dehydration.

Get her to a hospital. There are special hospitals all over that treat eating disorders among other mental problems (Self-injury, anxiety, depression etc.).

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My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come!

You can go to an amusment park. (Thats what I want to do!) If you dont live in a big city, but near onee you can bring some friends there for a day.

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HEy i think i mite no u cuz ur sn is Maculator and im goin to mcauley and a group of us were talkign about the maculators...whatz ur name

HAHA Ya. Who are you?

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I have a lot of cool sayings in my profile. Most in whick I made up. Every time I look at me friends profile, she has all my same sayings in mine. I get so frusterated! Now, she just IMed me witrh her advice colum user name and it is almost the same as mine! Should I tell her how I feel? Please, I need help fast!

Copying is the most sincere form of flattery.

EVEN THOUGH IT IS SOOOOO DAMN ANNOYING.

Tell her that you'd appreciate it if she didnt use your sayings and column style. Thats all you can do.

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I have a long time friend who has turned.....slutty. She doesn't think anything that she is doing is wrong at all. How do I get her back to well.....her? What do I say or do?

Talk to her! She might not realize her actions and clothes (etc.) are slutty. If she refuses to listen and doesnt care how you feel, maybe its time to let this girl go. Sucks, but... you dont want to be judged by her reputation.

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