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okay, so ive known this girl for since 6th grade. were now both in 10th grade and we have been on and off. the reason why, is guys.
okay. so now THIS time a guy that she likes [she never told me that she liked him] likes me, and he told me and i told her. and honestly, shes being a huge bitch[sorry about the language] about this whole situation. shes getting so many people involved and getting all these people to hate me. the guy likes me because im laied back and im chill, and shes just always buggin' and shit.
shes in this situation where she likes about 3 or 4 guys. justin[the one that likes me], noah, grant and her BOYFRIEND! jake. their currently on a break, and their not going to get back together.
heres a texting convorsation we had today:
me: we need to talk.. badly. give me a call.
her: what is there to talk about? Honestly... and btw i heard from ppl that you and justin were just messing aroudn with me. if thats true then you just fucked up big time.
me: we wed me. what crime did i do? nothing
me: wow that text got messed up. he told me that he likes me, thats nothing bad on my part.
her: Laura im done with this shit, if you guys were honestly just trying to piss me off you should of known what was gunna happen. he doesnt like YOU your just easy so thats why hes going for you, and you knew i liked him and yet you do this.
me: oh my god christie, i didnt do anything. im not easyyy... can you just call me or IM me later and be mature about this?
her: ill call you but im done ! realize that now.. you fucking backstab me with almost every guy and im done.. and you werent so mature yourselfeither talkin shit about me to becca and bekki!
me: i wasnt saying shit... lmao
your the one who is calling me a bitch and a slut whe nyou know im not a slut.
her: you so were and yeah.. i was calling you that dont fucking deny anything.
me: hahaha are you kidding? i said your a bitch for taking this so outta hand.
this is just going to continue for hours.
so when she calls me, what should i say to her? shes such a bitch and we seriously had to many plans together for our sweet 16. and now their just ruined and shes one of my best friends and she knows everything about me and i know everything about her...... it was just so awkward today with her coming to my lunch period pulling everyone aside and telling them whats going on and they dont even get MY side of the story.
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hmmm... she really is a bitch with a capital B.
i have a friend exactly like this(well, she was) i mean exactly. what i did and i think you shoulddo to is get her by herself and tell her that she needs to get over herself and stop being such a back stabbing, self centered, drama queen. sometimes being harsh is the only thing that gets through. you also need to tell her that you are happy with your boyfriend and not intrested in justin. and that she can't have everone. now, when i confronted my friend, it turned into a shouting match so be prepared for that but on the upside... we're closer than ever and she's changed. so there is hope. and don't under any circumstances let her walk away from you, because then nothing will be resolved.
good luck, i just hope she listens...
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15/f... if that helps?
lately it seems like i am losing my best friend.. she had liked this guy a lot for a long time and i knew for a fact that he liked her too, but he was too shy to ask her. i was friends with both of them so one day at a party i was sitting with the guy, lets call him BIll, and i was like SUZY [my friend] really likes you and i know for a fact that you like her so stop being stupid and just do something about it. needless to say, they ended up hooking up by the end of the night. it was all really good at first because it was good knowing that i helped them get together and they were both so happy. but now it seems like she has no time for me. me and my other best friend... me, suzy, and this other girl were all really close. well me and my other best friend, lets call her JAN, have noticed that she doesnt really hang out with us, and when she does she is very distant and always talking about BILL. i miss her so much and i just dont know what to do. everytime i call her and ask her to hang out she is always like well can BILL come. and i feel bad so i say yes, and then BILL ends up getting on my nerves majorly. i feel so crappy because it is my fault that they are together and i wish that i could be happy for my friend... but i just feel so left out.
i am sorry this is long, but i really just need some advice as to what to do. i keep telling myself that eventaully they will get sick of spending every second together, but it doesnt seem like that will ever happen. i dont know how much longer i can take him!
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well, i've gone through exactly the same thing! and i just told my friend i missed her! but if your not all that confident, then be subtle and ask her to stay at yours for a girly night in or something! then once she's at your house slip in to tthe conversation casually that you miss doing things just the two of you!!!!! x
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