hey. my name is christina benavente. and i am 13 years old. i am so good at giving people advice. if you have any questions about anything just ask me! hope you ask all the questions in the world! bye!
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i've been friends with my best friend thats a guy, since i was in intermediate school..and all of this year we'd always talk and flirt and all that stuff well a week ago he stopped talking to me..and i had no idea why, his friend had told me that he told him that he hated me bc of all the crap ive done to him this year. my best friend well old best friend wont even talk to him about it but i dont know what i did, how do i get him to talk to me about it bc i dont want to lose him as a friend (link)
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well you should like just get him to talk to you in private..or like call him or talk to him online and ask him what you did to make him hate you. tell me all about what happens!bye!
.christina*
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omg i am sooo fucking pissed off at my friend. she won't stop talking about my boyfriend and it's really starting to get me pissed off. Cause she even admitted to still liking him since they went out like during the summer but all i hear from her is what they did the first day they went out and how good of a kisser he is. what should i do i don't want her to get mad at me??!!!! (link)
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she probably misses him thats all.
but don't worry. that happened to me and my friend once. she used to go out with my boyfriend and she couldnt' stop talking about him. why don't you just tell her to like please stop talking about him and that it's getting annoying. but tell it to her in a nicer and gentler way. hope it all goes well! have a great summer! bye
.christina*
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okay well im really sick of not being popular. i have a couple of friends, but sometimes they just get sick of being with me. today in school we were reading reports to the class. the person who read their report got to choose another person to go next. NO ONE PICKED ME! my "friends" chose their other friends and then the nerds even got chosen before me. finally, this girl that no one likes picked me and everyone was laughing at me because i was the last one to read my report. i just want to be popular. now i DEFINITELY don't want to be the most popular girl in the school, but i just want some really nice friends who would take a bullet for me. i'm sick of going home every day crying, because no one ever talks to me or saves a seat for me. everyone has their own groups (clicks) and im not in any of them so im just the odd one out. even my best friends have a click and they won't let me in it. i just feel like i'm in the middle of everyone. and its not like im shy because i talk a lot and stuff, but i guess im still too boring for everyone. no one even trusts me with their secrets (including the 6 friends i have.) and i don't tell secrets and my friends know that but if they have a secret to tell eachother, they'll make me leave and then i can hear them laughing and stuff. and no one even tells me who's going out with who!! my closest friend had been dating a boy for 3 days and she didn't even tell me and i felt like a loser when everyone knew it and i was just finding out. i feel like im left out of everything, and alot of people pretend to like me and they'll hang out with me once in a while, but then they start their own clicks again and i can't get in any of them. And in AIM profiles when everyone lists their friends, I'm always close to last even if I know that person really well. I feel like I'm just not as "likeable" to people and they think everyone else is funnier and more fun than me. And I'm not mean to everyone and I'm never boring, but I just feel like I'm treated like a piece of crap. One second someone will want to hang out with me and the next second they're friends with someone else. So many people say I'm their "best friend" and I'm so "nice" but they don't want to hang out with me. I just don't get it. I don't know what to do. How can I be more "likeable" to people so people will want to hang out with me and be better friends with me? How can I make A LOT of friends? I've tried everything but I just can't get in to anyone's click. How can I do this? Please don't make me feel worse then I already do. I just want to die.
Thanks, I will deffinitely rate. (link)
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well. this is what it's gonna be like that in highschool. so i suggest that you join some clubs like yearbook committee, newspaper, the glee club or whatever. it's an easy way to make friends. and then when you make friends you can join all those clicks. to make people like you for you just be yourself. just act the way you do when you're with your family. it's very simple. well hope it works out. and have a great summer! bye!
.christina*
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what is desperate means? and is that bad? cause people say im desperate and i dont know what that means
im from japan. (link)
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well desperate isn't a good thing and it isn't a bad thing. but the desperate meaning i know is that you're willing to go out with anyone!
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my friend is mad at me because of a misunderstanding. i have tried everything, but no matter what i do she refuses to be my friend. I have told her i was sorry more times than i can count. i was literally in tears before because her friendship means a lot to me. i even told her this. she has blocked me on aim and wont answer her phone because my name shows on the caller id... and she wont talk to me at school. there is no way i can get through to her that it was a misunderstanding. i feel awful and i don't know what to do....please help. (link)
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well if you keep on apologizing for a misunderstanding and she won't forgive you then just give her some time to let her steam out. and either wait for a time when she's very very very calm or a time when she feels right to come to you and talk about it. good luck and have a great summer! bye
-.christina*
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Hey. So, I got into a fight with my best guy friend. And, we were yelling at each other over Aim...the thing is, i tried apologizing, and he was like why are you being all nice now etc. But, i wasnt the one that should have apologized,because only 1 thing was my fault. and he misunderstood it. My friend stays mad, at things...i dont want this to ruin our friendship...any advice? (link)
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well i can give you good advice on this problem before with my best guy friend. anyway. if you already tried apologizing and he was still rude, then you should give him some space. and then when it's the right time when he's calm and like friendly then you should talk to him about what happened and try to explain to him what he misunderstood. good luck on this problem. and hopefully he'll still be your friend
-.christina*
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