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I dont know why but i think i may be losing my friendships with my friends. A lot of my friends aren't talking to me anymore and when i try to talk, they ignore me. This never happened before and i dont know why or how this started. It started a few months ago in my freshman year at high school and just keeps increasing with more friends as time goes on. Many of the friends i had before are now just acting different around me. They seem to dislike me and keep distance with me. If i try to talk, they just say nothing. I dont know what to do and im scared about this situation. They used to text me, talk all the time, and we used to hang out and now its stopped. Whenever i try to hang out with them, they are always with the other people there and if i try to talk they just answer and get back to the other kids. I feel really depressed and i dont know why this is happening. They act like they dont like me when i'm around and even ignore me. They act like i'm invisible or as if i'm not there. I need advice on this and want to get back to how everything was before. I dont know what is wrong with me, or why they are like how they are. I really want to fix this so please give any advice you have.

Listen its hard in High School everyone goes through this . Your not alone people lose friends everyday . You say you have more friends everyday maybe your acting differnt and your friends like the old you . Or its just the fact they knew you first and longer and they don't want to to forget about them . You have to try and talk to them if they don't want to talk just say "Hey I talk and you just listen !" its simple as that . If they don't seem to care or understand how you feel then maybe there aren't really good friends . Because good friends try and work their friendship out. Like I said before your probely doing somthing different then your normally doing . Just try and talk with them and see if it works out and if it doesn't you have a lot of other friends .

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so my best friend and brother just started dating. i hate that so much! i cant be a bad friend to her though and say how i really feel about them. i just dont want to lose her because everytime we are together she is texting him and they are in the same house and she wants to go to his room to be with him when we are supposed to be having "best friend time" however everytime they are together she never texts me or even splits her time between us. she promised me he would never ever take her away from me but i feel like he already is..what should i do?

Listen don't worry . Just sit down with the both of them and tell them how you feel . If you feel upset at the fact your friend is ditching you for your bff then talk to you brother . If your friend is really your bff then she can give him space and be with you at times . I know sometimes you feel left out maybe you can talk to a guy and go on a double date and you guys can all hang out together . So your bff can be with her boyfriend and you at the same time .But honestly just talk it out with them . They should care how you feel because ones family and ones a bff .

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Hi, My bestfriend started going out with my brother ablut 2 years ago and he broke up with her three weeks ago because he had trust issues with her and because of the way she was treating him, which i wasn't aware of until now. He told me everything about how she's always rude and makes him feel that he can't trust her with all her stories she tells him everyday after work about all the guys that asks her out and give her flowers and even ask to have sex with her..he has talked to her about the issues they had and about how she would'nt stop txtn alott of guys and not to mention talk to them on her cell phone and when she does she goes to a corner or hide from him while talk to them on her phone, which i think is really dodgy on her part. She deliberately tries to make him jealous and to the point of him breaking up with her, she played to many mind games and he could'nt tell the truth from a lie when she's talking. but to cut it short..when he broke up with her she used me to try and get him back and asking me for advice, which was hard for me since it's my brother that she went out with. I told her to ask him for one more chance to prove to him how much she loves him and that she'll change, but at the same time, my brother was telling me to tell her to get over it that he doesn't wanna be with her anymore,and called her a lier and that he is over her. that put me in the middle and i hate taking sides, that was until recently i found out she punches and hits him when she doesn't get her way with him, that just made things even more hard. I have stopped hanging out with her but she still txts me. I really wanna tell her off about her attitude and about the way she treated my brother but i don't know how..What should I do??

i think that you shouldnt yell at her even though thats your brother and she hurt him by cheating on him. Family comes first I know but what happened between your friend and your brother is between them . Just let him deal with her on his own .

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