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im on a new club soccer team and i dont know any of the girls! i have to go to a party with them today, and alot of them know eachother! how do i make new friends without looking like a loser? THANKS IN ADVANCE (link)
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look,just be yourself and your guarented to make lots of friends.just be really friendly towards people at the party.
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theres this girl I like and shes one of my best friends.I want to ask her out but alot of other guys like her.Im not sure what I should do about it. (link)
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what you should do is continue to be a good friend and wait youll get your turn
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My friend just told me she smoked weed. She is 14, and I don't know what to do. I can't get her in troble. She said she only smoked half a bowl. What can I do to get her to quit? I don't want her to fool up her life (link)
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smoking is an addiction,you cant help your friend unless she wants to help herself,now if she wants to stop smoking weed, thats when you help her.trying to make her stop when shes not ready can only make it worst.just be there for her.
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My bestfriend is starting to get annoying she won`t stop bugging me. I come up with excuse so I don`t hurt her feelings but don`t get me wrong she is my bestfriend and I love her but just I don`t wan`t to hang out with her every single day. do you get my drift. But how do I let her down easy by telling her I don`t wanna chill everyday with you without being harsh (link)
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you can tell herthe truth just say' I need my space once once in a while,its not harsh just tell her that,Its guarented to work
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please help me..........
you know how in highschool how you form "groups" that you hangout with party with do things with...... see it's always been so hard for me to find the right one. i'm very preppy but at the same time wild.
i'm on the soccer team and the girls and guys practice together and hangout together and so we end up becoming friends whether we like it or not. it's a very stuck up group. everyone talks about everyone. basically everyone's insecure but covers it up by teasing and shit. i'm the most wild one in the group. i'm crazy and on trips i always do random things and have fun. some people think it's hillarious but most started to constanlty tease me saying i'm so retarted and annoying. i come off like the crazy girl that doesn't care what people think but deep down i do. it bothered me. so i stopped being wild. but that didn't really work. even when i was serious they (mostly the guys) repeatedly said crap about me behind my back...........because i was "the girl" to talk about. anytime i mess up....... like run out of gass in my car, forget to turn in a paper, show up late, they're like wtf she's so dumb. my bestfriend (who's been my bestfriend for years) happens to be the most popular girl on the team. she sticks up for me but it doesn't really do that much to stop them. all i wanted was to be around people that respected me. so i stopped hanging out with them and quit soccer for a couple months. i tried mingling with other groups. it was hard because everyone already has "their people" they hang out with and has their inside jokes and parties to go to. i didn't have fun with any of them. but i tried and tried. i missed my bestfriend and the girls i hung out with in soccer (bc the guys were the ones that mainly were the jerks to me) so i was just like fuck it im going back to my soccer click and i don't care what the guys say. but when i show up at the parties now they're always like ugg why is she here and they try to ditch me and my bestfriend said it's hard always sticking up for you! and i really need a job. and theirs a job opening that pays 10 dollars an hour at the soccer club. my bestfriend works there so it would be fun..........but so do all the guys :(
i don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!
i feel so sad :( (link)
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I have that problem to,if people talk about you,dont let it get to you,as long as your happy with what your doing who cares wat anyone else has to say.
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