Hey everyone, my names Kendall and I love giving out advice. I'll help you with anything. We all go through the same things so ask me whatever and I'll respond the best that I can.
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hi i like this boy. i want to be freinds with him and talk to him with out him knowing that i lke him.i kno were his locker is (right acrass from mine if i could do somthing with that)help (link)
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See if you can IM him and talk to him
GOOD LUCK
-KENDALLSKI03
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Ok. I have this friend from Canada and I Imed her and her aunt 'supposeofly' said that she passed out and then about an hour later i got back online and she said she didnt know who I was. I think she is lying. How Can I tell??? (link)
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She is so lying. Call her and see what she says and like talk to her aunt and ask her if she really can't remember.
G'Luck
KENDALLSKI03
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ok so heres the thing i just started dating this guy but he has done some bad things like he shopelifted once and he cheated on one of his old girl friends i really like him but i dont no y all my friends told me i shouldnt like him but my mom told me to do what i think is right but i really really like him and i dont think i should and it is just so confussing but he promised me he would never do that stuff agian i just dont no what i should do plz help
♥~*marykate*~♥ (link)
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If you're concerned then there is a reason for it. Deep down if you want to go out with him then go right ahead, but if he does do those things again I would take it for granted.
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Hey.. I'm a sophomore in high school, I go to an all girls school in Missouri. I came to high school without any friends from grammar school really.. I had no close friends of which I hung out with. I came into high school and met a ton of people.. but all of freshman year I never went out on a friday night. Now, I just started sophomore year and I'm making a real effort to talk to people and try to make friends but it's not working. I'm in honors classes and it just seems like a lot of the girls in the class are not like me at all. I try to be social and make friends but no one seems to wanna hang out wiht me. I'm also just a totally different person at school than the person I am at home. I am really funny and loud at home and at school I'm quite. I'm shy sometimes too. I think people get the wrong impression of me. I just really want this to work. The girls in my honors classes like where their skirts up really high and are really egotistical and weird..I guess you could say, and the other girls drink, and I don't drink (alcohol). I feel in the middle.Theirs a sophomore dance in february and I want a group of friends by than so that I can meet some guys through them to go to the dance with. I AM SOO STRESSING OUT ABOUT THIS DANCE!!! WHAT AM I GONNA DO?!?!?!?!?! It's really depressing and upsetting. I know that most of you will probably say that I should get to know people, and introduce myself, and I am. I am in class with basically the same girls I was freshman year. If no one could give me advice, and encouraging story would be good. Is there any of you that were in my situation and found a group of friends? please help! (link)
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Dear Stressed,
I think that maybe you could just hang out with a group of people at the dance. Instead of going with someone, just catch up with them [some people that you do actually know] and then just jump in and say, 'hey guys! whats up?'
If you don't want to do that, then you could be brave and ask a guy out instead of a group of friends. I'd go with the friends one because I know how hard it is to ask out a guy that you're not even sure likes you to a dance!
Good Luck and let me know how it goes!!!
-muah-
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hey, i'm a sophomore in high school and i attend an all girls school. I've been at this school since freshman year and it's a really great school. It's great academically and the activities are great, but their's one problem.. and that's the social aspect. I've been thinking about transferring because I really don't fit in at school at all. I am in honors classes and i take an AP class and i've been in class with basically the same girls and i don't fit in with them at all. They are so different from me and i've given them a chance and it doesn't work. I've talked to a lot of people that aren't in my classes that i'm in theatre with, but it isn't working for me. THeirs another school in my area thats a boy/girl school that i coudl transfer to. i don't know if maybe that would be a better option, i could start over and make new freinds .. i just don't know if its worth risking my good academic standings at my current school and the awesome extracurriculars. does anybody have any advice?? i seriously dont know what to do anymore i've been crying all week. it really sucks and it just wears on me not having any friends at school. please please please help... and let me know what you would do in my situations. thanks. any advice is appreciated-- all advice will be rated a 5. (link)
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If you think that acedemic is more important than social, then I would stay at your school now. You're in your sophmore year now. All you have to do is make it through Jouiner, and Senior year and you're out!
If you believe that social is more important than acedemic, then transfer. If you do transfer, you could still get into good classes, and I'm sure the school would be fine, and you'd make new and good friends.
I think that you should transfer, but it is up to you! =] GOOD LUCK
-Kendallski03
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I know one of my friends is stealing things from my locker because I saw all of my stuff in her backpack. I don't want to tell. What should I do?
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Take gaurds on your locker the most you can. Ask the school principal if you can change your lock number because she must know it! If he says no, then your last choice is to talk to your friend.
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i have 2 best friends and we all hang out all the time but my two best friends have known eachother longer and they tend to leave me out ALL the time! Its annoying, it comes to the point where i dont want to hang out with both of them at the same time. When they arent together and im just hanging out with one of them its is soooo much fun! i have already talked to them about it so that wouldnt work...any suggestions? (link)
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You should find another friend to hang out with. After you do that, they four of you could become a four group and not just three. That would work out better.
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Okay, as childish as this might sound, I needed to ask it anyways. I'm 15 female, and this other girl named; Rachael is 14. Rachael rides my bus & she was my first friend at school. I just recently moved here, she was/still is a loner too! After about a month she really started to annoy me, & I guess you could say I really don't like her AT ALL. But, she still follows me around, talks to me, etc. I'm not mean to her though - Seen as; I'm nothing like that. I'm seriously one of the nicest people alive. I really don't like to yell at people but if it becomes necessary, then I do. Today on the bus she took my purse because stupid me left it in the seat while I went back to my locker to get a book. When I got back she said, "I threw your purse out the window! Your love took the purse I don't have it!" Which really pissed me off. I asked her nicely for about 5 minutes, then I just lost it and totally flipped out, I really wanted my purse back & I knew she had it. She gave it back 10 mins after that and I ignored her the rest of the way home. When she asked if I was mad at her I said no, because I think it might seem childish if I were to say yes because she stole my purse & I defintiely didn't want to be the immature one in the situation. I was wondering, if I did right? Did it seem childish of me not to talk to her, or do you think that I did right? Thanks!!
Sorry this is so long, but I really needed to know. (link)
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Racheal needs to mind her own bissinuss. Sit down with her on the bus one day, and talk to her about how you feel, and how she's acting younger then she really is. Racheal needs to become more mature and you've already reached that level. People like that do not mix well as being good friends. If you could find more friends that are more mature, adult like you, then that would solve your new friend problem. Talk to Racheal and see if she gets mad. You don't have to completely be mean and loose it, but don't let her step all over you and take over. Stand up for yourself and believe that you can do it.
-kendallski03
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Ok,for Halloween my friend Lisa suggested I dress up as a French Maid.And I did,I went the whole nine yards shaved legs,high heels,makeup everything.Now all my friends think I'm gay.The worst part of all this is that I really enjoyed being all dressed up.I had a long talk with Lisa about this and she said the reason why she suggested the costume was because she always thought I was a bit girly she said if I wanted to she will help me shop for clothes and stuff.The problem is if I do this everyone will def think I'm gay.I'm so confused I just don't know what to do.Thanks for Listening. (link)
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I don't get why they think you're gay. It doesn't make sense. Has anyone actually told you that they think you are gay? And don't you mean lesbian? Ok well, maybe you could dress a different way and then give them a whole other idea.
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I`m moving in a few months, and I`m very scared. I've lived in the same house for all my life, gone to schools right next to each other ( the elm. && middle schools are right next to each other ) progressed through each grade with the same familiar faces all around, and hung out doing nothing with my same group of best friends every weekend. I usually hate change, and I do now too. I love my life exactly the way it is, I find myself crying everynight `cause I don't want to move. I am very fortunate though, I`m moving only about 15 minutes away, but I am going to be at a new school / school district. I have one person I know at this new school, However my current school is so full they are redistricting a few neighborhoods to my new school. So I will know some people. I know yall probably think I`m a greedy wimp for being so sad even when I`ll have some friends, but you don't understand. It's been the same way all my life and I love it, I`m afraid of change, afraid of this move, afraid to leave what I love.
- how do I get over this fear ? How can I make the best of my move? How can I be sure my "friends" now won't forget about me when I move ? (link)
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What state and city do you live in? Well, anyway you seem like a really great person and your move is up to your parents. There is no doubt that you're going to have to move, so you might as well make the best of it. Make sure you have time to say good-bye to all of your friends, and since you're only moving 15 minutes away I'm sure it won't be that bad. If you're not shy, then you'll be fine making lots of friends. Maybe you and your friends can have like one last sleepover before you move. And play fun games and just talk to go to a movie or bowling or something. Do things to get your mind off moving, like painting or maybe going on a short vacation with your family or friends. I hope it all works out and you find some more friends that you can spend time with. Sorry! Good Luck.
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