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heyy im kaysee.(aka,KC)..i live in connecticut, in the middle of now where..i love to help people and i can answer about any question.. so feel free..also..my AIM sn is KCx1061 so feel free to ask me anything there too...! *KaysEe
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Okay so I'm a 14 year old girl. I have 4 best friends...ish. It's really more like 3. One of my friends, is a complete snob! She thinks shes better than everybody else, and shes completely obsessed with shopping. I mean, I'm not against shopping, but whenever we go with her she flaunts about saying how she can buy anything she wants because her parents give her all the money she wants. I'm TIRED OF HER! Yet, no body else likes her, so if we abandon her, she'll be alone. at times theres nothing I would want more, but I don't want her a complete loner.
signed, confused
no matter how much you and your friends hate her, shes still human. could you imagine finding everything bad about you AND losing all your friends in one day? if you have a problem with her, talk to her alone. dont do things in groups: it can be very intiminating. tell her something you like baout her or something, then say what bothers you about her. try to be nice about it though, ive been in a simliar situation before =/ hope i helped *KaysEe
Well, me and my friend have been friends like forever. WE are bestfriends and our families are extremly close. Well, she has tried braking the relationship every month and 3 or 4 times a month. I am sick of it!! And starting to get sick of her fighting. She can be oh so nice and OH SO mean. We only fight online because she doesn't want to fight in person. I think she might want the relationship to end but I really don't know. She says she will always come back to me every time we fight but sometime I think she won't. I really don't want to lose her but maybe the next time we fight this may be the end to our relationship. I need some advice with that. She used to say how I get all the guys, and how I am not pretty, and also how I copy her, and junk but like I don't understnad her. I have tried not telling her more close things so if we do lose the relationship she won't really have anything to say to anyone about my secrets. But Like I need help on what to do with her.....
first of all, she doesnt seem to be a very good friend. but one thing you do HAVE to stop is talking online. i have made that mistake may times and it just comes back to haunt you. go up to her face to face nex time you fight and i garentee you things will be MUCh different. you need to be the stronger person by doing this. my best advice if you wanna save the relationship is to talk to her face to face, if not just say to her that if she always wants to fight, then why be her friend..and that it's "over" persay...good luck..if you have any questions leave them in my inbox *KaysEe
my best friend just called me 2 minutes ago. I was over her house earlier but her Dad said I couldnt stay for dinner which is weird because i do alot. Im practically part of their family. But anyways, my friend calls me and goes, "My mom has breast cancer." Then she had to go but she promise she`d call me back. PLEASE help! Anyone. I need something to say to her - Im crying because her mom is like so close to me and my family. I have never been through this and i dont know how to comfort her. ♥
aww i sorry. i know this is hard time for you and your fiends family..but try to stay strong, your friend needs someone and even if you feel you cant..it will be a comfort to her if she has such a great friend to depend on. to comfort her you dont always need word, just a hug or smile can make someones dark days just a little brighter. everything is in god's will from there. stay strong and good luck. *KaysEe
my best friend went out with a guy... and they never pay attention to me when were out.. so one day my friend says please come to the game today and i go why and she goes cuz i want you and i said if you can take me home and she says yeah.. we go to the game and of course she ditches me for her boyfriend.. to make it worse she goes to me can you find a ride home me and (her boyfriend) are going out to eat.. then she leaves me.. i come home and she apologizes but she doesnt get how mad it makes me but im not gonna tell her cuz it will make everything weird.. i dunno i just need to complain to someone.. if you can help please give advice
i understand totally, its happened to me. i know you dont twant to talk to your friend but if you can talk to her ALONE w/o anyone there it might help. also, if she invites youe somewhere and you know her b/f will be there then dont go. try backing off a bit and see what happens. boys are jsut phases while real friends last forever. good luck =) wish you the best