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Q: Im 17 and a female. So, I have a best friend but we have had bad fights throughout our friendship and almost stopped being friends and it ended up happening once and then we ended up becoming friends again. But she met a guy last year and they ended up dating. The 3 of us all became close! Except for it seems to me that she likes him better now and wants to be with him more even though im her best girl friend! Her bf has even told me that she said she loves him more!? she shouldnt just dump me for a guy right? she hasnt exactley but we have been talking less and I'm not sure what to do. It does kinda hurt but I dont think she realizes it. Even though shes important to me i think I'm gonna let her go. It's already happening so why not? Or no? It just feels thats whats going to happen. advice please?!

I'm in the same situation as you at the moment, but with me it's 3 of my closest friends all getting boyfriends and me being left out.

What you have to do is confront your friend.
Tell her how you feel.
If she's really your best friend, she'll understand.
If she doesn't then maybe you should consider finding a new best friend.

I think your friend needs to be reminded of the girl code, mates before dates, or chicks before dicks.

You're friend could also be blinded by love. Or maaybe her boyfriend is influencing her to act like this.

Whatever her reason is, you should talk to her and hopefully everything will work out in the end and you'll get your friend back.

Good luck

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