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Q: 15/f
Alright, well i talk to my friend on the ineternet chatting and things like that. I heard that he likes me and really i just think of him as a friend. When we are chatting on IM he tells me i'm beautiful and he likes me and asks if i would ever go out with him. I only think of him as a friend and i don't want to lead him on but i don't want to be mean. Whenevr he tells me i'm pretty or beautiful again, what should i say to that that dosen't lead him on. I still want to be friends with him. When he says that i'm not gonna say "I only like you as a friend, " or "i only think of us as friends." He isn't really implying that just by saying that im pretty. Half the time he says he likes me, i don't know if he is joking or not. What should i do? Thanks!
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be clear and tell them what you do or do not what. bc if you dont and you "lead" them on then they will def hate you. it worse for them to hate you bc of that then just be upset for a while cause you dont like them like that.
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Q: Hi, so my best friend is going out with this kid, and he's really nice to her. I recently made a new friend, and she's really awesome!
However, she likes my best friends boyfriend, and he likes her back. So, I've decided to stay out of it. But, even though I'm friends with the boyfriend too, i just found out that HE'S CHEATING ON MY BEST FRIEND with my other friend. I PROMISED her i would not tell a SOUL and i always keep my promises. But, the boyfriend found out, and he called me really upset saying how bad he felt & how he was an asshole. SHOULD I TELL ME FRIEND HE'S CHEATING, OR STAY OUT OF IT, like i promised. But, if she finds out, then she'll be really mad that she couldn't trust me to tell her that. =/.
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HELL YEAH! lol if shes your best friends you have to tell her. who cares what this other girl thinks i mean ya you might have made her a promise but your best friend is always most important.
think about how your friend will feel if she finds out that you knew and didnt tell her and if she gets mad at you for telling her then remind her of that.
this guy might also be a way for you to tell her. if he really feels this bad about it then he needs to tell her and let her decide what to do!
all i know is that ive lost my best friends to drama and i would def tell them about it if i still had them!
hope you figure things out! good luck :)
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Most people call me K. thats all lol. i grew up very fast as a kid with many challenging problems with family life and friends. i was the advice columnists in our school newspaper and i think i give very good advice. i have a lot of family and have been through many different situations with each of the..boys and girls..i have even helped parents with some of their problems. im very interested in sports, i love them all! I love fashion and dressing up to go have a good time. I have had my own relationship problems as well as helping with family members problems and friends as well. I think i am very qualified to help people with advice and i will do my very best to not only answer your questions to the best of my ability but for what is right. i am a very Christian person and look to god in most things i do. i wish all of you luck in your advice seeking process! Much Love!
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Gender: Female Member Since: September 9, 2007 Answers: 52 Last Update: January 20, 2009 Visitors: 4601
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