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well...saturday noght I was Iceskating and my friend Brittany was there(I am a girl by the way) and so was the guy I really liked well, brittany said 2 me, want to see how h0rny we can make these guys? and I said yeh so me and her ended up makin out and I kinda enjoyed it (i was drunk, BUT STILL) and it was all 4 show but I think about it now and i am worried and now all of my friends at school are callin me a lezbo but I still make out w/ guys and i like guys more than girls.. But, does all this mean I'm Bi? (link)
We all go through a curious stage growing up and experimenting never hurts. The girls making fun of you probably wonder what it was like theirselves. I wouldn't stress to much about it.


My best friend is becoming one of those 'I dont care' people. She says that she doesn't care about school, her friends, her family, her life, her anything. And. I dont know what the hell to say to that kind of attitude. She can be obnoxious and she's very rude sometimes. We've been best friends for four years now. Two years ago her parents got divorced; one of the nastiest things ever. She's been off her rocker since, doing drugs and getting drunk - but occasionally, not obsessivley. She has no respect for her family. And I dont know what I'm supposed to do at all, should I even care? She certainly doesn't give a crap about anything.

I tried to help, a lot, but all she says is that its going through one ear and out the other and that it doesn't matter what I say because she knows she can change but she wont. I know most people have been through rough times and know that the ability to change is in their ability, but thats not a way to live. She doesn't even see the point of life - which goes back to religion, and if you're going to make some ignorant comment about that then I'm telling you now that I dont give a shit about your opinion about that because I'm not here to discuss whether this has to do with religion or not.

Also, please spare me if you're gonna say 'talk 2 her. hope i helped lol. rate me 5z plz.' I'll give you a one. >.>. Thanks. And just for generalness, we're both fifteen. (link)
Although it may seem like your efforts are hopeless,if you really care about your friend you will keep at it. The ocassional drug use and drinking can only get worse over time and come to the point of threatening her life. She may not want to listen to you right now, but if you just keep at it hopefully she will start to come around. Be support of her and dont try to act like a nagging parent. Even if she isnt acting like it right now, Im sure somewhere inside she is wanting some help. Dont give up on her when she needs you most.


ok. my friend is making me so mad. she lost her cheereleading uniform and since the last place she was at was at my house, she keeps saying she left it here. so i looked and looked all over the place and it WASNT here and i never saw it ever. so like every couple days she blows up and starts these BIG fights all about her uniform. its so annoying because i seriously DONT have her uniform. what do i do?! (link)
Aa bad as you probably dont want to with her blowing up on you all the time, I would suggest helping her back track and search some other places. Onces she locates her uniform she's sure to come around and apologize....


I have this friend. We are like best of friends and we chill every other day or talk on the fone.
okay and she used to be friends with J. J and her used to be like how we are now. Js kind of a whore like meeting internet ppl, making out with strangers, flashing ppl and dressing like one. So we both hate J and my friend hangs out with her everytime shes pissed at me or just to get her to stop calling her. Now shes been with her for 3 damn days in a row. So I called her and she wont answer and its making me mad.
Should I trust that she doesnt talk crap about me like we do J or what should I do? Is there a way to be in touch w/o her knowing its me and getting her to answer? (link)
Sounds to me like your friend is 2-faced. If you two talk about the other girl like that its almost a promise that they talk about you the same way. I would move on and get a new friend....




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