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OK. My cousin is asking my boyfriend questions on her email with the subject of "kissing". It's my boyfriend and my cousin. They might be dating behind my back cuz they are good friends and they see eachother everyday. (link)
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This as you say could be leading into something here's what you do. Keep an eye on them and if you get really suspicious check his e-mail deleted messages if so. Check and see what he's doing behind your back and talk to your friend about don't keep it to yourself it might not seem right to tell her what's on your mind, but if you don't tell this could go to another level past you your cousin, your boyfriend, and your relationships.
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Well, ok my friend Natalie lies a lot. She told me that she was dating Jon over the summer. I told one of my friends then we asked Jon and he said no. They I asked one of my friends, kate, thats friends with Nat if she told her that. Now tommorow kate is prolly gonna ask nat and nat is going to deny it. kate is probably going to believe natalie and idk why. what should I do if kate believes natalie that I was lying? (link)
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Have kate speak to one of your friends that have your back like Jon have her ask Jon and have Jon tell her the truth. Don't let Nat convince kate that your a lyer don't take that.
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my friend & my other friend, are in a HUGE fight. The one girl.. lets call her Candy, ahha. well here, let me explain a little bit of her past before i continue...
She dated a guy, named steve. well, they broke up.. like last week. So, now steve, likes me & candys bff, Cassandra. & cassandra said i don't know. So, now candy is all mad at cassandra, because cassandra likes candy & was saying all this stuff like.."its not fair, i've never even had a boyfriend & you & stacy (me) have had like 10." so we were like, umm ok.
So then, is she technically saying that she only wants to date him for a boyfriend?
& thenn anyways, also cassandra talks behind candys back like a TON. i mean like all the time. so we told her so now she says she can't trust casssandra anymore.
& all this stuff.
i feel bad that they are not going to be friends anymore. because candy is usually a total pusshover & shes pretty serious about this.. soo, is there anything i can say or do?
&.. about cassandra wanting to date steve.. well, i was thinking, "all is fair in love & war." even though were only in 8th grade, does that nesscarily still like count? because like candy & cassandra aren't very like... mature, mature. i'm like smarter then them when it comes to these things.. but i don't know exactly what to say for this one.
so any help, on like any tiny bit of this, would be GREATLY appreciated. (link)
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I'll tell you this both of those girls are just trying to act out. Be popular be heard and be seen. So just ignore them if they are true friends like u say they are im in the 8th Grade too and I've seen it a doen times before they'll make up on they're own and if not let that be their problem not yours. All they're doing ias putting each other down anyway, you say they're not very mature right but you are then be mature enough to step away and keep your eyes on the prize.
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This boy & I fight a lot, over the dumbest things. Like I'll jokingly say something slightly rude, and he'll take it so so so personally and not talk to me for a week. We are extremely close, and getting in these small fights about every week stresses me out badly. Is there any tips you can give me on how to avoid these fights? (And he jokes too, I just don't take it as bad as he does) (link)
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Talk to him and tell him maybe you guys are too mature for them small fights. Tell him this is on your mind and if he can't take the small jokes that you throw at him then why can't he take it like a true person like you do.
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okay well my best friend told me that anotheror one of my frinds sisters is well....a prostatute.
i didnt believe it at first but i assure u its tre, shees about 17 and dropped out of college after a year and well she workes in a a local mall, but shees a prostatute aswell, now i really dont want tohurt my friends feelings but i want to tell him aswell so he can sort it out so do i tell him or not? (link)
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On my behalf no, don't, don't get yourself caught up in a situation that you can't handle. First try and see if she'll admit it to him before you do if not, then don't do anything for a while if it continues tell him what more troubles could he be in.
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My best friend told me a secret, and he told me not to tell anybody. It was about his ex. I didn't think it would be a big deal, so I told her, because we are so so so close.
and he got really mad at me.
and I really miss him. We havent spoken since.
what can I do or say to make it up to him?
I know it is my fault and I feel terrible about it. (link)
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Don't rush your apologies, yes it was wrong of you to do that first put yourself in his position would you want to talk to you either. Let him cool down and then apologie try giving him something he really likes like a present or something for make-up.
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I am In a youth group at my church, and we're are all close like a family. Until a couple weeks ago, and I'm just now finding out a couple days ago. But there is an adult We call him "Womble" hes about 26-27 and hes soo cool and funny, and there is this is this girl he name Is Erika. She Is one of my best friends and she is 15 a couple months away from 16th Both of them are very Christan like and know whats right and not right but Something very wrong has happend Me and my friends at church just can't beleve they ar not friend when me and erika and stephanie all spent the night over josh's house I took her phone and there was this big long messege from womble and she chased me around cause she didn't want me reading it, I didn't read It cause I wanted to respect her privacy and me and stephanie asked her last night what was wrong between them 2 and she wouldnt tell us But she did tell us that they are going to talk only if he talks to her first and I dont blame her we kep askin her questions and she said It was something he said and did kinda but I just wanna know what can I do I dont want them to rueien the relationship. and I know there was nuttin bad in it just a slip up of words. Just HELP ME! (link)
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Well I know it's your friend and all but if it wa me I'd investigate not like spy-like but just search like. If this question you asked sounds like the way it sounds your friend could be in danger (rape) please do something don't let it sit back and happen and then fell it's all your fault later. Talk her out of it.
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My friend keeps popping my pimples. It's gross. How can I make her stop? She randomly comes up to me and holds my face and BLAH. She didnt seem to understand 'Stop!' I hate going to class with blood smeared on my face.
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I'm sorry but if you keep letting your friend pop your pimples..lol.. let's just say my sister has a problem with popping her pimples and her whole face is covered with black dots. So whatever you do talk to your friend tell someone she has to stop otherwise this will happen.
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I have 6 friends to buy Christmas presents for, and I know I have at least 100$ to spend, but I don't want to spend ALL that!! Can you help me think of gifts to buy for each of them that are under 10$? I'll tell you a little about each person...
Kaylee- Likes sparkles, but is sporty, and lovesss good movies!
Rachael- Very girly, and loves pink!
Scotlyn- Somewhat girly, and likes glitter, etc.
Summer- Loves to READ! She loved the book "Blue is for Nightmares".. If you've read it, that's the kind of books she likes!
Hannah- Girly.. likes makeup!
Kassy- Likes tinkerbell and monkies, and frogs.
I need to buy them each something 10$ or under! Please help me!
I'm also not sure what to get my mom. I don't really have a price limit on her, but I know I'm getting her a candle and a snowglobe. I'm just not sure what else to get her! (link)
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Buy all of them fake necklaces all-gold and you can get them from the corner stores near you, they have all sorts of things that are fake that look totally real, necklaces, watches, chains, medallions all.If not go to target I gurantee they have them selling for about $12.
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One of my friends likes this guys and wants to date him, so we have all been trying to get them together. the thing is whenever we all go to the movies or whatever her best friend is always all over him. her best friend just got out of a relationship and is taking it pretty hard. lately she has been hanging out with my friend's crush (just her and him)
I was wondering whether anyone thinks that she would go for the guy. I mean normally i dont think she would, but she isnt in the best mental state. what do i do?
ps: the guy likes them both
pps: i rate 5s
Thanks!!! (link)
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It depends on who reserved the guy first if your best friend liked the guy first then you count on hookin them two up first because she was there first so she beats your other friend to the jump.
As for your other firend just gettin out of a relationship and she's takin it hard if she's takin it so hard then why is she so press to get back into a relationship and if she really does want to forget about her last bf try hookin her up with another guy that you know and try to convince her to go out with him because that's not right how your bff is wantin to go with him for a while and then your other bff comes up and wants to get verbally contacted with him so take my advise.
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My Best Friend Amber is moving in 2 weeks back to Michigan (I live in Ky) sso you can imagine how far that is away. We Chose to write each other. But MY problem is, is that I can't stop crying. What Can I do To Stop!? And Also. What Could Be a Good going Away gift or something?? Thanks 13/f
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you know I know just how you feel becuz i moved from dc all the way out to silverspring maryland and yea i can call my friends but still it would be good to see them again. so a good goodbye gift would be something that you've cherished for a long time hopin that your friend will remember you every time they look at it and to help yourself stop crying don't stop crying, crying is just another way of letting your feelings out not in words but in little tears that fall out of your eyes onto the ground they leave your system is what i'm tryin to say so don't stop cryin when you do stop then you'll be cured.
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i need some new stuff to listen to. i like fall out boy, dashboard confessional, kelly clarkson, gwen steffani, good charlotte, ect... plz give me some suggestions of this type of music. (link)
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may i suggest going to launch.com they have this new search bar for music and you just ask the same question you asked me but much simpler they'll give you lists of ongs you can listen to for free and watch free music videos to and buy Cd's from off of the web. It's very simple only 3 steps to follow the easiest site in the world for music.
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hey,
Well i like this boy at my skool and he likes me to he is 6th grade and i am 8th. I wanna ask him out but both of his parents are skool teachers at the same skool we go to. But my bro. asked my crush's mom and she said "yeah as long as he does great on his game" so what should i do. (link)
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If his parents agree to it than go for it don't hold back although your in 8th grade and he's in 6th don't be ashamed there's plenty of woman out there with younger guy friend's trust me like my mom for instance. It'll work out great as long as you know that he likes you back now that's the only thing I can't answer there okay.
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