Helloo world, my name is Joolz and I'm 17 years old going on 18 which I'm rather scared of and I don't want to grow up!(I've watched too much Peter Pan as a kid!)I love my dog who is called Berta Bagel. In would love to go to Italy, Russia and Australia and China and all those far off places. I hate doing essays and learning stuff that is really quite useless in every day life!
I'm single and bored of being alone,...I'm all alone no one here beside me... la la la so on and so forth!
Gender: Female
Location: I'm from London.
Member Since: January 11, 2005
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okay - two of my best friends have boyfriends (total geeky boyfriends, but boyfriend non the less) anyway, during the week, like in school and stuff, they are all like making plans with me for over the weekend and stuff, then the weekend comes, and i call em, and there parents tell me they are out.. well.. the point to the story is that they are lying to me all the time, its bugging me.. they tell me that they dont spend enough time with them and that they always spend time with me, when in all actuallity, i only see them at school.. i mean.. i dont have a boyfriend, and i feel like because of it, they dont want to hang out with me anymore.. anyway, this weekend, we were all supposed to go skating, and they told me like 10 mins before skating begins, they call me and tell me that they want to be alone with their friend.. my mom drives by this local park later that day, and sees them with they boyfriends (friend 1 with friend 2's bf wrestling and friend 2 with friend 1's boyfriend wrestling) they consider THAT a date.. i ahev tried to talk to them about it, but they always get mad at ME!! HELP!! (link)
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I seriously have to say that, that is not a friendship! That is really not a nice thing to do . i suggest that you go an find some real freinds hun.That is just mean, to get mad at you when their the ones lying, all the best for the future Joolz
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ok this might start off sounding bad... but I dont mean it to at all! Ok well last year I didnt have very many friends... it was my frosh year and I was kinda-sorta friends with a lot of people i didnt really like, but i hung out with them because i had no one else ya know (it was my frosh year at a new HS). Ok well this year Ive really been able to have fun with the "popular" group of people. I like them a lot and we seem to get along better. Well we arent as tight as i wish we were and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions. Also: people think i just want to become popular and thats why ive just started hanging out them. But really it isnt true. But sometimes i feel like i'm INTRUDING on the "popular" group because we havent been friends as long as all of them have. PLEASE DONT SAY "dont care about what they think" because I cant help it.. i try not to but it still bothers me!
*please help! I'll rate good!*
UOcheerbabe (link)
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You know if you feel happy around them fine why don't you suggest to who ever you get on best with that you have a girly sleepover night in or something thats all ways a laugh!! But remember if hey have known each other for a long time which is normally the case hun it might just take time, and i'm afraid to say you really shouldn't think about what they'll be thinking of you coz to be honest people are scared of any one with a bit of individuality.(you might want to look at their clothes you'll be suprised at how similar they look, there is normally one person that they all copy!) All the best JOOLz
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i dont get it y do we all have 2 deal with crap from our exes some1 help im me i cant take it he treats me like shit!!help me please i dont know what to do anymore because it gets on my nerves and then hes going out with my best friend or ex best friend and its pissing me off and i have tried talking to both of them but it doesnt help at all and i think she knows she is pissing me off real bad!!!and it hurts though ya know?someone help i rate fives and fours at the least!! (link)
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All I can suggest is take chill pill gal! It's gonna hurt and if you've tried talking to them then thats the best you can do, if you know that this other gal is purposefully pissing you off no reaction i know its hard but when there is noreaction then they may just give up.!! Hope be some help! luv Joolz*
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i just lost one of my friends we havent been close recently but for 3 years we were and we drifted the past year, i just found out he passed away and i cant belive it, it hurts so much i alwayts pass by his house thinking hes going to be there, i always want to call his cell phone thinking hes going to pick up, i cant handle this no1 can, i dont no wat to do i miss him teribly i just wish i can bring him back and tell him that even tho we drifted that i still love him when i saw him laying in the casket i just wanted to wake him up, what should i do :'( (link)
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It's hard i've lost both my grandparents and i still miss them terriblly, all i can say is that its a matter of time. Always good to talk about it with those who are also missing him, remember the good times lul!
Luv Joolz
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I have a best friend.. let's call him.. Bob.. Bob has been my best friend since even.. kindergarden. We haven't every been really close though because he's always wanted to fit in with the "in" crowd. He's changed himself from how I used to know him.. and it kills me inside knowing that he wouldn't even think about going out with me. It's funny though.. because he's always hanging around with me, and he acts really cool, and like himself when no one else is around, like if we're talking on AIm. Then when we get into class.. he's this rude, abnoxious, wannabe.. do I just forget him? *sigh* I rate answers. (link)
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Hi i think i know how your feeling, it must be hard seeing him tring to be some one else when you know what he is really like! I suggest that when you are alone together just ask him casually why do you be with people who don't except you for who you are? If you've known him for so long i wouldn't give up on him...
Good Luck!! *Joolz*
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