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There's this girl who sometimes hangs out with me at school.The only thing she does is brag, like really randomly and its sooo annoying! She just says random things about how big her house is, how well she can dance, and blah blah blah and i hate it. I'm plain out sick of it and everybody is, and next time she brags to me i wanna say something that will shut her up...like a good comeback. I'm not like being mean, but seriously she's annoying everyone and i just wanna say something witty to shut her up. any ideas? (link)
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just tell her exactly what shes doing and how its making you feel. sometimes people dont realize what theyre doing.dont accuse her.... try using "i" statements that tell how shes making you feel and what you think.... i hope i helped!
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I have this new girl in my neighborhood. My friend really likes her but I don't. Because when my friend is with her they ignore me. Now that it's summer they're always having a water fight, and they're arn't inviteing me to have a water fight. Should I ask if I can play or just watch them have the best time of their lives while I do nothing but watch tv. I need someone to answer me quick.
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hey! why dont u try to make new friends? maybe then your friend will miss you and will want to hang out with u more. you can always tell them how u feel....
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ok... i like my guy friend **bob** :) he-he bob... ok ne ways, i know he has a physical attraction to me. how do u go about asking if he likes u all in all? can u give me some pointers?
thanx f/16 (link)
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hey....the most and best you can do is just be honest to him and tell him what you feel and hope he returns the feeling. just flat out ask him guys appreciate honesty and braveness.... or if ur way to shy then just ask his best friend ;) l8er and im always here for ya if u need to talk
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what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do? (link)
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ahhh....yes I can definately relate! I get that way a lot. You need to talk to a counselor or someone who can help u deal with it. You need to realize people DO care about u apparrently cuz they had u stop cutting. you need to realize your a wonderful person. make a list of things u love about urself and things u need to change about urself and get to it! get help before its too late....
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have you ever had a friend that was just always there for you and then one day all she talked about was wanting to get away from everyone? thats what im going through now and it sucks because this person has always been there for me through the roughtest times in my life and now i feel like im losing the one person that knows me best. its my fault for not opening up to people but i have a major trust issue. I've been hurt plenty of times in the past. but this friend has never hurt me and now i feel like im gonna lose our friendship. what should i do? (link)
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well....im in that situation only im the friend wanting to get away. I run away from a lot of problems. its just so much easier for the time being. maybe this person has a trust issue too. it seems to me like ur thinking a lot about urself and barely any about your friend. maybe you should try having a conversation with the person without any "I" or "Me".... more about "YOU" and see if anything changes. She probably just needs someone right now and needs to be needed. maybe shes been hurt too. if u really care about the friendship, open up trust her cuz it seems she hasnt done nething wrong, and think of her, not urself for once!
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Hi, I am really confused on a certain subject. My friend and I have a lot of things in common. We do have some things different about us and those differences aren't major. She is just a really confusing person sometimes. She changes the way she feels over and over and it confuses me. Im the type of person that likes to run when things start to get hard but lately it feels like she is the one running away. To me it seems like she is coming straight out and telling me she doesn't want to be friends but yet i dont really know why. and i dont think she does either. what should i do? im 17 years old female. (link)
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hi. first i would like to say that its ok to be confused about some stuff like that. I am in a quite similar situation. Everyone can be confusing sometime. Did you ever think maybe she was going through a really hard time and just felt she had no one to talk to about stuff? tell her how u feel about her running away and ask her why she does it. maybe she just needs a friend or someone to talk to. u have to realize u guys are young and still going through changes. just let her know u are there for her no matter what. theres nothing else you can do. give eachother some time and see what happens. i hope i helped, im always here if u need more advice or nething.
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hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do?? (link)
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hey....i can relate cuz im kinda the "punk" in a friendship I have. Dont let anyone tell u what to do or what u should do. You are your own person....be you. Talk to her about it.
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Alright well tonight I found out that my bestfriend had sex with my Ex boyfriend... he actually wasnt my boyfriend but i concider him one because we were "Together" But not offically! And I dont know what to do because the person that told me I swore to him i wouldnt tell! And this is the hardest thing that I have truely ever had to been threw! I dont know what to do! Please help me :-/ (link)
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well u need to decide which one is more important, your friend who told u being mad at u for confronting your friend or your friend getting away with what happened. Does she know u still have feelings for him? And are u sure its true at all?
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