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I have this friend...and she is well moody very moody... like she is really awsome for like a coupal houres and then after that i cant stand her...her attitude is very snippy! her mom asks her to do a coupal of chores like once a week and she bitches non-stop! i dont know how to act towards this person anymore. she is a good friend (best) but we have our fights. i dont know weather i should keep her as a friend or drop her and just have her be someone i know? (link)
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Good question.. and hell, I know the answer, because I'm dealing with the same stupid crap as we speak. My situation is probably a bit different than yours though. Figure out what the hell the problem is, maybe you're the one being a bitch. Maybe you just think you're better than her, and maybe she just hates you Kristen.. but you never know. Like I said, keep sleeping around and maybe someone will love you, but I doubt it.
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I have this friend (lets call her amy) and she always gets mad at me for nothing and I dont no what to do because we do a lot of stuff together but with her I cant say the wrong this or shell FLIP i dont wanna say like stuff to make her even more mad .. Sometimes I dont even think she is my friend because she takes it ALL OUT ON ME. What should I do ? HELP!!
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I know EXACTLY how you feel. This situation is so simple to solve if you just think about it. First off, think of it from all angles. She is probably taking it out on you because you're her really close friend, and you do alot of things together, so she feels that no matter how mad she gets, you will always love her and you can make things better. She trusts that you can handle her anger better than anyone. A way to solve it, confront her. Again, my motto, be blunt. If you come right out and tell her she's being a bitch, and if she doesn't start treating you like the friend you are to her, then you're not gonna hang around anymore, I promise she'll think twice and treat you better. Also, let her know how much she means to you, and how much you value her friendship.
♥ Ashleigh
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Me and my 3 bestfriends have some problems we need to work out. We were so close last year. We told eachother everything and we were always there for eachother but alot of things have changed now. We don't trust eachother like we used to and I feel like our friendship is falling apart. I have had really bad luck in friendship. I got into many many many other fights with some of my other friends. One of them was so serious that she didnt even want to be my friend anymore! I didnt think that would ever happen with my 3 bestfriends tho becuz whenever i got in a fight with other people i always talked to them about it and they always made me feel better but we are starting to argue alot and to top it all off my other friend is trying to take my bestfriend away from me by inviting her over to her house nd not me or my 2 other bestfriends... our friendship is just really falling apart nd i dont kno wat to do anymore.. nd i feel like i wanna start cutting or something becuz i feel like i cant talk to anyone anymore! i just want things to be the way it used to be! I kno this is really confusing but thanx for reading this and pleaz respond.. it means alot to me! (link)
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First off, there is no better advice I could give you then, DON'T CUT. It is NOT wise sweety. There are plenty of other things you could do. Example, this is what I would do: Buy each of your friends a little present, a card, or a teddy bear of some sort, just some sweet little gift that shows you put thought into something.. and write them each notes about how you feel, and how you wish things were like they used to be. Girls are very difficult, as I'm sure you know, being one.. but you just have to approach the situation in the correct way. Give it a try, I wish you the best of luck.
♥ Ashleigh
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