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Hey everyone my name is Nikki and i'm 13 years old. I got this advice thing cuz i like helping people and sometimes if I help other people out then I can figure some of my own problems. I love to dance and act and I love hanging out with my friends! oh and of course I love my bf Nick!!

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well me and my boyfriend broke up like 5 days ago.. but now im dating someone else.. and well i think my friend likes my ex.. and like i liked my ex a lot and she has done this to me before.. last year i was dating someone for like 5 months and we broke up and right after we broke up she started likin him and they went out and like no one knows how much it sucks to sit here and watch her do it again.. what do i do ?

ok i know someone who use to do this to my friend a lot too so try talking to her about it be like.... "ok i may not like my ex anymore but i'm not completely over him. so can you atleast like wait more because when i see you flirting with him and stuff i kind of don't like it cuz you did this to me once before and it really hurts seeing you with him." ya know something like that because if you don't say anything to her shes probably gonna just keep doing it again and again.
hope i helped!

♥ Nikki

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SO i have this friend let's just say her name will be Sara.
So Sara and my other friend (hhmmm...Kat) sometimes hangout like when saras parents go up to Nevada and trips.so saras mom asks kats mom if sara can stay at
her house...so then during the time when saras staying the weekend at kats i try to find fun things to do all together...like go to the movies,mall,the center...etc.
but when i ask them they say no because sara usually gets left out but we all try our hardest not to...anyways one day after alot of bugging them sara gives in to going to the mall...well unfortunatley on that day sara just happens to of had her period and is acting really quiet and shy and kranky(im not saying thats a bad thing because she cant help it but..) so when i try to think of sumthing to talk about she doesnt answer and kat does so she was like leaving herself out. so after we go home aand i ask sara so did we leave you out and she responds yes and i was like we cant help it ur really moody and kranky ( i was thinking this not saying)and so then Kat really wants to hangout agin besause she had alot of fun but sara doesnt( and because shes been stuck with her all weekend and is kinda getting annoyed)...so now whenever we all hangout sara says she cant handle all of us together and it always just reuins our plans....


whats a girl to do?...so that we can all have fun but no1 will be left out & hurt

---confused girl

maybe sarah just feels that you and kat are closer of friends and she doesn't say anything and makes herself feel left out for attention. or she could just be getting left out because maybe you and kat talk about things a lot and sarah doesn't kno whats bewing said and feels left out. to try solving this problem i would hang out with kat by herself then hang out with sarah by herself then have kat and sarah hang out by themselves. by doing this you could each become closer and then when you all hang out things could be different...at times everyone will feel left out i kno that because it happens to me sometimes too. so just try getting along with eachother more and then see what happens

♥ Nikki

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ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not?

i would try talking to her about why she does this to you. maybe there is something embarring that you do and she doesn't like it. a true friend would never do this to you so you might wanna drop her and stay with people that wouldn't do this to you

♥ Nikki

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