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Sk8terbabe019
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hey..well okay here it is..
..last saturday i slept with my friends boyfriend while she was on a trip..she found out..hates me now and so do a bunch of other people and they wanna beat me up i guess..im going to a dance tonight at my old school cuz i switched schools at the beginning of the year and im really nervous..do you think theyd try something there??..or should i go and just have fun?!..i know i shouldnt care what other people say but when people talk about me it bugs me..so please hellllp:-/
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well yes.. they are going to jump you... what a stupid move to make.. If i was your friend i'd hate you too;
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Hummm, Soo for the soccer team we have to buy gifts for people and it is supposed to be secret...Hints the name Secret Santa..The girl that I picked is really stuck up and I know absolutely nothing about her.. What should I get her. (link)
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gift certificate to pull her head out of her butt
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Alright, well I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on a Christmas gift. My friend, he is 14 and he loves video games. He plays them non-stop. And I don't have enough money for a game. What would you all suggest I get him as a gift?! Something $30 or less. Thanks (link)
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you can go to a game store and get one for 20! ugh stupid
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im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp! (link)
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Well, you should find someone else..... He obviously didn't like you.
When someone dies you just don't get over it, so w/e!
BYE!
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I need help. Ive just recently started dated a guy i really like. My friend was really excited for me when she found out. But then both of them got into a big fight and now they hate each others guts. They always get into big fights. One time he called my friend bad names to her face. I stood up for her tho. cuz the reason why he cursed her out wasnt a good reason. But since he cursed her out shes been getting mad at me lately. She thinks that im putting him before our friendship. But im not. I value our friendship more than ever. She thinks i should break up w/ him because of the way hes been treating her. But i dont want to break up w/ him because he is sooo sweet to me. I feel like i can talk to him about anything. Plus he hasnt done anything to me. I know it wasnt right of him to call my friend bad names and i stood up for her even. but i guess thats not enough for her. My other friend told me that im putting him infront of my friendship w/ my friend since hes my first bf. Everybody is getting mad at me just bc im going out w/ him. Today my friend told me that i was hurting her by going out w/ him. She keeps rubbing things in my face and shes making it seem like im a horrible friend. and it hurts because i dont want to be. I dont think i did anything wrong. She told me that i should put friends first. And i do put friends first. i stood up for her did i not? i dont know what to do...i really need ur advice!! because i like this guy alot and he doesnt treat me bad or anything but my friend hates him. and sooner or later i might have to choose between them. but i dont want that to happen. please help!!!!! (link)
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he's a craker break up!
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my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends? (link)
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What I do is I make up saying I like Joe or w/e (someone that no one would ever even think) , and then wait a little and see if it's repeated. If someone comes up to you and says "Do you like Joe?" then you know it would've been repeated
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i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me? (link)
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Well, in middle school boys don't understand the meaning of relationships. Start hanging out with guys and become their friends. lol. Flirt, and show them what your made of. Take it from me, you DO NOT need to be a cheerleader to have a boyfriend.
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ok theres this girl and shes a year older than me and she goes to my school ok yeah and some one gave her my sn and now she wont leave me alone i ahve profiels and stuff so she leaves messages in my guestbook alwaysz constatly call ing me fata$$ or b**** or anythign u can think of and shes annoying she sayz this stuff at school and im not a narc so im not telling on her but i wann kick her a** but i know i will get in depp trouble what do i do to put her in her place and make her shut up!? (link)
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Ignore her. Tell her that your better then her, and don't say anything back. Just say that your not going to go as low as her, because you've got class, which is obiviosly a word that she doesn't know the meaning to.
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im friends with all these guys and when im around them they always tickle me but sometimes it isnt in the right spot like either right under my breasts or where my hips are...i told them 2 stop and they listened and all but when i was with this one guy lets call him bob. well i was talking to bob and we were talking about sex and i felt really comfortable with him but then next thing i know we're at his house and we start making out.... i dont have a bf so it dosnt matter but at first we were in his car and then we went to the family room and sat on the couch i told him that i like him and he said u only like me and im like yea and he said well i love you i stoped talking and i was sorta scared but then i kissed him and said i love you too. i took his hand and asked him where his room was but when we were walking we were kissing and all but when we made it too his room my pants were already off and his shirt was off but right when he was gonna turn the doorknob we found his friends and i ran in the family room bob came back out and he said he really didnt know they were there and i said ok but now all my guy friends look at me different because they have seen my ass and shit bc i was wearing a thong and when im around them they always ask me dosnt it hurt and sometimes they mean with the thong or sex
i need to know how to make them shut up!!!
HELP!
THANX
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Just tell them the truth. There not going to be like putting it in your face anymore cuz they know the answer. or you could say why don't you try it or something like that. I don't know. Just try to change it up.
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