hiya folks..ok so im young but im gud at giving advice esp on sport
i enjoy swimming spend 12hours of my life each week doing it so..yeah sports ma thang
i tend to get hyper and in my future want to take after my dad by going into law, so im thinking of going to the university in Charlotte North Carolina (America) i tend to have a few problems of my own though!!!... but im gd.. and ill always answer as truthfully as i can
Gender: Female
Location: Manchester England
Occupation: still have to go to school
Age: 14
Member Since: April 11, 2005
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my friend thinks i dress slutty, but i dont really think so because she's a slut and her clothes are a lot smaller and tighter than mine are. i like to wear tank tops and i have some miniskirts, but i havent worn miniskirts in months, and now i wear low rise jeans. do you think i'm slutty? (link)
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What is your friend going on about? she has no idea at all!!.. being sluty is sleeping with loads of people i should know all my mates are sluts! they have skirts up their arse and they dont wear knickers so you see all... thats sluty!!
i wear low rise jeans and tight tops.. and its fine.. everyone where i live in Manchester dresses like that!
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okay. well i have been best friends with the same three people for 4 years now and we do everything together and i love them to death but now they have new friends and they will talk about plans right in my face and not invite me and so i do other things with my other friends but i cant help but get jelous. its like sometimes i dont want them to be happy unless there with me. I hate feeling this way. I hate being jelous, but i cant help it. Things have changed and i cant take it. I try to take my mind off it and do other things but none of my other friends are as close as they are. i cant just give up on out friendship. How do i stop the jelousy? and Should i tell them how i feel? cause they would probbaly laugh and get mad at me...
sincerely,
Sojelous (link)
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i had the same problem about 2 years ago, and now im having one of the best times with my bessie's!!! Try getting to know your mates friends and try and fit in with them!!!! you could end up with soem new bessies!!
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I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????
Please help me?????
19...Female (link)
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this isn't an obsestion, you just have a very rare realtionship with ur bessie, 1 in 100 find their true bessie mate and it sounds like you have found her. Ithink that you are getting to paranoid, if your friend does like you the way you do to her then she will not go from you. Just relax and enjoy the company you are with
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