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HEY EVERYONE! MY NAMES CHANTAL. I'M HERE TO ANSWER THE QUESTIONS THAT YOU ALL HAVE. I'M NOT AN EXPERT OR ANYTHING OF THAT SORT AND DON'T CLAIM TO BE. I AM ON THE OTHER HAND WILLING TO GIVE YOU MY PERSONAL OPINION TO YOUR QUESTIONS. = ]

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I am female and 13 and i have been friends with this girl for about 3 years. She copies everything I do, like fashion etc. This is surprising cause she is really outgoing, and everybody thinks she is coming up wiht all of this stuff! I don't know what to do!

Ok, I would suggest you just be honest with her and tell her that you noticed it seems as if she is coping you and you don't appreciate it. Ask her to please stop and just be herself. Now if taht doesn't work,haha, I got an idea. just pick out an outfit that is really ugly and she will probably copy you and wear something like it, and well it'll be ugly. Then after that tell her you know you copy everything i wear and do maybe that will teach you to just be yourself and not copy others. People are going to like her for being herself, not acting or dressing like someone else. Let her know you only did it for her own good because she just needs to accept herself and have her own fashion.
good luck.

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okay so im a freshman and just started high school. ill just start by saying i was pretty weird in like 4,5,6th grade and then made some friends in 7th and 8th grade was a great year. well now i want to make some new good friends, maybe even a new best friend. most people already have their groups established and i dont really know how to get into them. dont get me wrong ive become "friends" with new people but id like to be better friends soid know i would always have something to do on the weekends and you know stuff like that

I know what your saying. I switched schools when i was in 6th grade and I had to make new friends. I was scared of not fitting it or getting good tight friends. I just was myself, that is the most important thing. Just be who you are. Try and be more outgoing (if you'r not) and make small talk with people. Start by asking for a piece of paper or talk about the homework or the teacher. You might be surprised how that small talk can lead to hanging out and getting to know eachother.
Just my opinions, hope they help.
good luck.

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My bestfriend's mom past away in january. She's not doing good at all. Do you guys know any good poems or quotes that i could put in a card and give to her? I really would appreciate it.

thank you.

well i lost my grandpa which was like a dad to me and in my opinion instead of quotes or poems or in addition to them i would write her a personal letter and tell her how sorry you are to hear of her lost and that you will be there for her if she ever needs to talk or just a shoulder to cry on that you will be that shoulder. just let her know how much you truly care for her and how she feels. let her know that she will make it and it's ok to cry and let it all out and to just hang in there over time things will get better may not seem like it but just hang in there it will.
hope i helped some!

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