oohh thanx for your advice and is true what you say she sees me hanging with people she before didnt like , and i know shes miserable she doesnt have any friends because the way she is ,i was her only friend and i feel sorry for her when i see her in school by herself it breaks my heart. should i call her?
hmm, i think if it hurts you, then you should call her. because you need to let her know the pain you feel or nothing will get better. but you need to explain to her that you really see her as your best friend and you want her to be more honest, that it hurts you when she lies. Just be the bigger person :)
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i thought me and my best friend were honest to each other but she wasnt to me , well we practically did everything together , we even shower together, i just to tell her everything about me but she always hide stuff for me , because she thought i would judge because of my religion beliefs , shes kind off wild she dates alot of guys and knowing that they all close friends, and she likes having sex with guys shes not dating or that she doesnt know that well. i was i a huge crush on this guy since middle school and i found out a couple months ago that she was talking to him , i got pissed off , because she knew i was practically in love with him , well i lie and told her i didnt care and taht i didnt like him ,the next day i hear they dating , and it got me mad because she kiss him in from of me and stuff , well 2 weeks later she breaks up w/ him because the guy that shes in love goes to the same school and hes mad that she was dating him. then six months later she stills talks to my crush and goes to his house every day and my crush bff told me that they had sex everyday , since then i stop talking to her for that , i didnt wantted to confront her cause i know shes going to deny it , she knows i know about it and she havent come up to me and said sorry. is being 2 months since the last time i spoke to her and i miss her . and plus summer is here and we planned so many stuff this summer and idk what to do should i call or text her saying why i dont talk to her , or should i wait for her to do it?
oh btw she had sex with my brother and didnt tell me for 5 months and she deny it during that time
* im a female im 17 years old
wow, your best friend isn't the best one, but i understand what you mean by you miss her, but i had a bad best friend before and it's best to let them see you have a great time without them. and then once they see it they'll start running back to you.
-aley
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