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Ok, I love my friends very much don't get me wrong. I have so much fun with them. But tonight I just broke down and started crying because I was so pissed and upset. I feel like I'm always the one being laughed at. We all make fun of eachother, and we laugh together, but I feel like I'm hardly ever taken seriously. One of my friends kept saying stuff, saying I live in the ghetto when I don't. And he knows it, he just wants something to laugh at. I didn't care, and it was funny, but it kept building up. Does this happen with anyone else? What do you do? I'd really like to talk to anyone in the same situation. Thank you so much.

hey
i'm in the same situation too. What i usually do is get it all out in writing (by either diary/journal, poems, songs, letters) and the best part is you feel better afterword and you dont have to show anyone. L.O.L i hope that helps its how i get my anger out . L.O.L but after that try saying what you feel to them but if that doesnt work then forget them ! its summer and try to make some new friends n forget about the old ones if you really can't stand them. I honestly think starting out on a clean slate is always the best! hope i can help! if you need any advice ley me know!

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Ok, this one girl keeps saying stuff about me that isn't true. I don't know what I should do!!!!!! I don't want to hit her I just want her to leave me alone!!! Any advice would be great!!

hey
i think that you should just go up to her one day and ask straight out "Why are you doing this?" just dont yell at her when you ask. Try to be calm and understanding when you do this. Just incase she's going to start something, bring a few of you girls (friends lol) with you when you go to talk to her. Friends help out A LOT with situations like this! lol i know because of expieriance ;)
Xx best of luckxx
~`*HoPe I cAn HelP!!*`~

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My best friend gave me a baby rabbit for Christmas (she breeds them, not in the greatest conditions but still)...but she died last night :'( I looked after her really well, I brushed her fur (she was a long hair) and fed her and gave her enough bedding and kept her hutch clean and gave her a run and everything...we think maybe she had a weak heart. But how the hell do I tell my friend? She's going to think I neglected the rabbit - I only had it two months!! I'm so upset and I can't deal with her hating me or anything...so how do I tell her?

hey,
i'm sorry about your bunny. I think that you should sit her down one day soon when she is in a good mood and tell her what you told advicenators. You say she is your best friend and i think she should understand.
i hope i can help
Best of luck*

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im a 13/f.....no one likes ne at school everyone speards rumors and talks about me, my friends r backsabing bitches!!!!! no one knows how i feel im really depresserd, if one person doesnt talk about me its the other!!!!!

Please help!!!


I RATE 5'S 4 every answer that doesnt piss me off!!!!!


Thanks aton

hey
maybe you can start talking to one person that you don't know very well to let them know the real you and maybe they will stop.
i hope that helps!
Xo BeSt Of LuCk

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ok I have/had a best friend for over 5 years all of a sudden when 8th grade cam she started to ignore me! well not exactly ignore but like she found a different best friend adn that person follows her around like a little dog! ok well this past week my "best friend" and the other person started to sit at another table and there was no room for the other girl to sit there so she sat with us. I asked her [in a calm voice] how come you guys didnt sit with us this week? and then she started SCREAMING at me and was like OK it was only a week get over it!!! Idk why you guys are soo pissed about it! and I said that we werent and then I said "when I sat with other people you guys got mad at me" and she said..SO THIS IS DIFFERENT! and stormed off and went to where my best friend was sitting. I asked someone later in the day who they were sitting with if they are mad at us(the table) and she said that my best friend said that we are all "joined at the hip, and she hated all of us in general"?!?!? and ya..I have been crying for the past 2 hours and I dont know what to say to my best friend becase I dont want her to hate me...

srry this was long and kind of complicated...

I will rate high if you help me!

*Andie*

Sorry about your friend and i think that you should just leave her to be alone w/ her other friends for a while, I mean that you should hang w/ your other friends for a while and just give her time to chill and get over it. Try to avoid her for a week and then try again to be friends w/ her. If there are anymore rumors floating around about her saying bad stuff about you, then ask if they are true. If this continues, then sry but i think that u should just end the friendship because I don't want you to put yourself in this situation over and over again and i'm sure u don't want it either. (I don't want you to put yourself in the situation because no one wants that to happen and I have learned from my own mistake which was similar to yours )
Good luck and best of wishes

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Hi, umm... The other day i went to my fgriends house because it was O.K. with my mom. My mother is bipolar an sometimes she says things one minute then later another. Well that night i went to my friends houise after my mom said it was O.K. and then my friends and my sistersaid something about their being a parent at my friends house. I didnt know what was going on at the time so i just went with the flow an went to my friends house. A few hours later we went home it was 11:00 at night which was no big deal because we usually some home late. Well when i got home my mom said we werent aloud to go to my friends after a few hours earlier she said we could. So my mom got pissed and said to make new friends because we werent aloud around our friends anymore. She after that sent me an my sister to our rooms and i told my mom my story about it but she didnt believe me and she pulled out a belt and started wailing me on my back and it hurt like hell. So now im pissed that i cant hang out with my friends and my fucking back is killing me. What should i do. Please no messed up advice im really not in the mood thank you.


Peace out...

You should call the cops or something because that's abuse! No one should be hit with a belt. I think you should either call call the cops or talk to a relative.
sorry
i hope i can help

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