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ok i have this guy friend who broke up with my his girlfriend, she broke up with him in myspace message and he loves her LIKE REALLY REALLY WHOLE LOT and and i really feel sorry for him and i dont know what to say to him does anyone know how to cheer my guy friend who is like my brother? they went out for like 6 months and he sacrificed a lot for her and i feel really bad and does anyone know what to say? not like youll find someone else or something thanky you (link)
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All you can really do is offer him comfort and a lsitening ear to whatever his aching heart wants to say. I mean yea you can always say the "you'll find someone better" "it was her loss anyway" and things like that, which help too, a little. but sometimes people just need someone to talk to. a shoulder to cry on. someone to grieve with them. grieving is a necessary step in getting over hardships, and even though its not very fun, it helps a lot in the end. So just make sure he knows that you're there for him if he ever needs to talk, or anything. And make sure he knows that u won't laugh at him if he's sensitive right now or even if he cries. Guys have a hard time admiting when there's something wrong with them or they're hurting. So just let him know that you're there, and everything that he's going through is normal for him to feel and it will pass soon.
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